Was I Wrong !!!? PLEASE TELL ME

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I refuse to speak to my mother because I'm really upset. after my interview i had to meet with my mother sense she insist i did so, i called my mother 42 times before she could answer the phone, when i finally met with her i told her " mom i need to buy a cheap work shoe sense i don't have one" and she said okay, my mother entered about 8 stores and she had a lot of heavy things. BY THE WAY i don't allow my mother to hold load, i would force myself if i have to but to see her with heavy load doesn't make me feel good. I DID not mind the load but she didn't care to even go and look for the shoe with me. NOW fine i had $35 dollars in my purse for a shoe but the one i liked was 50 dollars i did not have that much, my mother offered to lend it to me and i would give it to her tomorrow. let me make this clear " i was fine with buying what my money could afford " but she pressure me into taking the one i liked so she could lend me the money. SO SHE LEND ME $15 dollars. by the time i got home by belly was hurting really bad, i told my mom " Mummy don't go outside and work because i won't be able to help u since am in pain" MY MOM STILL WENT OUTSIDE and work. my mom wanted to lift a bag of cement so she called me, i still tried my best to carry it for her but the dog kept wrapping the chain around my leg which almost made me cut my leg on the glass. MY MOM IS JUST STANDING THERE WATCHING won't even hold the dog. i shout guys, i said " maria hold the dog because i'm trying to help u and am not feeling well. my mother started cursing me and threatening to take jail for me, saying how she lend me money and if she did not lend me money she could have paid someone to carry her thing for her. NOW THE THING ABOUT ME IS i don't allow anyone to help me out because i don't want anyone throwing things back in my face, so accepting a hand out thats not me and she knows that. LAST MONTH only i gave my mom $1200 dollars to buy whatever she wants and i lend that money to give her, i did not even have it. NOT ONCE can my mother say i gave her anything and brag about it, or sent it back in her face.my bothers and sisters don't even know how much money i give to my mom or if i even give her. i'm my mom's only child who does things for her and i mean everything, bills everything, i make sure she doesn't have to work or worry, since my brothers and sisters only focus on themselves. MOST OF THE TIME SHE ACTS LIKE SHE DOESN'T EVEN CARE ABOUT ME, LIKE I'M JUST SOME TRASH. WAS I WRONG ? DID I OVERACT ? UPDATE i made a lot of errors since i wasn't in a good mood but i fixed it