so sad

@Giannna (1040)
Novi Sad, Serbia
December 18, 2020 12:16pm CST
my mom does not recognise me anymore and i cry all day..she told me that i am someone who wants to hurt her..i really dont know how to handle myself.sorry for bad news..she told me that i am not her doughter.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Dec 20
I’m so sorry. No one wants to hear that from their mother. Is she ill?
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Dec 20
@Giannna That explains it. Now that is sad and terrible.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
18 Dec 20
dementia..
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
18 Dec 20
@DianneN i am really trying to do my best.i love her
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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl
@1creekgirl (41692)
• United States
18 Dec 20
This is so sad. Does your mom have dementia or Alzheimers? Or is this that she's angry with you? Ether way, I'll pray for you.
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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl
@1creekgirl (41692)
• United States
20 Dec 20
@Giannna I'm so sorry.
Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
21 Dec 20
@1creekgirl thank you..
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
18 Dec 20
god bless you..it is lewy body dementia
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Christie
@jainaproudmoore (457)
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19 Dec 20
I sorry about that, and I wish there'd be something we can to about the dementia, but I guess all we could offer in myLot community is to be here to listen to you. I can only imagine how tough this is for you, but I hope you'll keep going and stay strong for your mom.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
19 Dec 20
Thank you very much,it means a lot to me
Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
18 Dec 20
I am so sorry. That's hurting. Is she sick or having some emotional or mental issues??
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
18 Dec 20
she has lewy body dementia.i never saw something like this before.halucination all the time
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Arunima Singh
@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
19 Dec 20
@Giannna Oh! I feel so sorry about her. Poor thing! It must be tough for people around her to handle it. You need to stay strong and even support her. She needs you.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
19 Dec 20
@arunima25 crying everyday..
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Dec 20
You need a lot of patience.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
19 Dec 20
in tons.so hard.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
19 Dec 20
@Giannna Have you considered placing her in an institution?
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
19 Dec 20
@Nevena83 noi i am thinking of find a help at home for now
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carmela arriaga alcoseba
@gamayngbaki (1602)
• Cebu, Philippines
19 Dec 20
@Giannna This is truly very sad news. It's not easy watching somebody we love and cherish deteriorate mentally right before our eyes.
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carmela arriaga alcoseba
@gamayngbaki (1602)
• Cebu, Philippines
20 Dec 20
@Giannna I can feel your hurt
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
23 Dec 20
@gamayngbaki a lot..u can not imagine how much
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
19 Dec 20
it hurts so much
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Ptrikha_2
@ptrikha_2 (47064)
• India
22 Dec 20
You are going through a tough time. Are medicines helping?
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Ptrikha_2
@ptrikha_2 (47064)
• India
22 Dec 20
@Giannna Do try to meditate. That helps.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
22 Dec 20
starting to help.have to go to sleep at least to try.thank you so much
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
22 Dec 20
Little help but no cure and it is killing me
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Notlilie
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 20
I'm sorry to hear this. That is horrible Is she staying with just you?
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Jeff Moffitt
@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Jan 21
My mother also suffered from dementia toward the end of her life, and although she recognized me, she thought I was still a 10 year old child. She refused to accept that I was a grown adult. It was both sad and frustrating seeing her like that.
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Jeff Moffitt
@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Jan 21
@Giannna That was the hard part for me too. Some of the things my mother would say to me were funny, but at the same time not funny. We just tried to make the best of a bad situation.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
10 Jan 21
yes,my mom sometimes tells me to go to my room and do some homework..it was so funny to me..but it is not..
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
10 Jan 21
@moffittjc that is all u can do..
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (341824)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Dec 20
That is so, so sad. I'm so sorry.
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Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Dec 20
When my father got dementia, Dad thought everyone wanted to hurt him.
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Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Dec 20
@Giannna I worked with dementia patients and they'd holler at me, for stealing their money! I'd never steal even one cent.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
20 Dec 20
the same in every case
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
20 Dec 20
@kobesbuddy exactly .always blaming someone .poor souls
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
20 Dec 20
I am so sorry about your mom who couldn´t recognize you anymore. It is really sad but she is sick with dementia and so she doesn´t do it on purpose.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
20 Dec 20
yes,darling,i now..she was ok today
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
23 Dec 20
@Giannna I am so so sorry that happened to you. That is very hard.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
24 Dec 20
@Giannna That sounds like a good idea. Family members can be very nasty and not think of what they say. What your mother said to you is just horrible.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
23 Dec 20
one of the best thing in this awfull situation is that her brother took her son to live with him and his family
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Dec 20
Dementia is such a horrible disease. My thoughts are with you as you go through this.
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Jovana
@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
18 Dec 20
god bless you,thanx a lot ,my friend
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Melanie Andromidas
@sweetlil7up (22)
• United States
19 Dec 20
That's so rough. Try to remember that she's not mentally the same. The things she says don't really reflect how she feels about you. I'm sorry. Dementia is such a terrible thing to deal with. *Hugs*
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Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Dec 20
For your mother to say this, she is injuring her own daughter! Apparently, she wants to control your life, which is wrong for a parent to do.
DB
@dgobucks226 (35721)
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24 Dec 20
So sorry! Memory loss or dementia is a hardship on both the parent and family. My Dad suffered from dementia as he aged. Fortunately he did not forget who we were. Just know that this is a health issue and you are always her daughter and loved.