Do you spend wisely?
By Simone
@Janet357 (75646)
December 25, 2020 7:15am CST
My friend messaged me today crying because her husband spent all their savings on a business venture. He never consulted her and the business failed after a month.
She is so stressed because they have a child together and are planning to buy a house but how can they do it now that they have nothing left?
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15 responses
@jnrdutton (3138)
• United States
25 Dec 20
I try to spend wisely, but sometimes do better than others.
RE:your friend, given that it was a substantial amount, her husband should have respected her enough to consult her. I'm sure though that they will bounce back, just some things take time.
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@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
26 Dec 20
@Janet357 True my wife told me the same story today about her co worker’s husband. He retired from his job to work on a business with friends before the pandemic arrived. The business was doing well by that time. But when the pandemic arrive the business got bankrupt together with his investment. Now he is unemployed and no income.
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@florelway (23284)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Dec 20
That's very sad. What a devastating situation on Christmas time. I am not married but should I had been I will not disclose all my earnings to my partner. It's wise that wives should have separate account where she can also make savings on her own.
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@florelway (23284)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Dec 20
@Janet357 that's good. It's best that both husband and wife work. It's not good to be dependent on your partner. Your friend will have to do that too, not too late to start.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
25 Dec 20
Yes, I do spend wisely. Though I am investing and I have a small business, I see to it that I make research and thorough study of the things I want to do. I also make sure to have a back up plan whenever things did not turn out the way I planned it.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
26 Dec 20
@Janet357 Food business is still good. For me it doesn't matter what kind of product or service you have. It's a matter of adopting the right marketing strategy. My business is not about food but a prepaid mobile and data selling and fund transfer which are always in demand.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
25 Dec 20
I always do my best to spend wisely. And if I need to get something pricey, I make it a point to think it over many times, do my research, and consult my husband. Your friend's husband should have consulted her first, that is their money and not just his to spend. I hope he has a backup plan to recover against this loss.
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@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
26 Dec 20
@Janet357 I hope he learns his lesson this time. Otherwise, he will ruin their family because of all his doing. Like now, he is not the only one affected, he actually put themselves in a position where she also needs to come up with ways to recover their savings.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
25 Dec 20
it's bad enough he didn't tell her about, but he used up everything!
i hope your friend has her own savings.
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@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
25 Dec 20
That's so risky and they should have a backup too. Yes I try to spend wisely as much as I can
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