Judging mother
By Sunshine
@Susnshine (12)
Jakarta, Indonesia
December 26, 2020 9:25am CST
I heard that we're not allow to judge people especially a mom.
They always have a reason for everything they did to their child.
But what if we saw her treating her child harshly, do we still have to tolerate it and think that she has his own reasons for doing that?
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@hidvcmbr (248)
• Malta
26 Dec 20
I have ever read a statement that said "Just because someone can birth a child that doesn't mean they can be a parent". I think that statement is relevant to this topic.
Not everyone knows how to raise children in a right way. They probably have their own ways on parenting. But I think we all agree that treating children harshly is definitely not a kind of parenting.
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@hidvcmbr (248)
• Malta
27 Dec 20
@Susnshine Yup, being kind is always the best choice to be chosen. Thank you for this kind reminder, Sun:)
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@Susnshine (12)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
27 Dec 20
I couldn't agree more. I think it's our job to pay attention to the children, even we're not their parents. This is for humanity
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@Susnshine (12)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
26 Dec 20
but there are many parents who educate their children with the hard way like hitting. And lot of this cases are not reported. the most people thought "that's how they educated their child" and did not want to interfere
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@May2k8 (18390)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 20
@Susnshine Unfortunately the children did not dare to take this case to court.
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@Susnshine (12)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
27 Dec 20
@MALUSE I hope everyone can understand that hurting children is a matter of concern. because in where I live many people do not care about it:(
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
26 Dec 20
No one has the right to hurt other people, either physically or emotionally.
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@Mga_715 (89)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Dec 20
Children deserve all the love and care in the world. They are God's greatest gift (that is what I believe). I could not judge a mother on how she treats her own child. It might be the mother may be experiencing depression, I do not know. But maybe she needed to seek help and the people around her can intervene by supporting her.
As a mother myself, I admit I am not perfect. Sometimes it really is hard to the point that I cry because I am exhausted. Sometimes having children is challenging. They test your patience. I always remind myself that these children need their parents to survive. They could not do things on their own. Thankfully, i have a supportive husband who supports me in taking good care of our children. It takes two to tango, and i guess we make the best team in handling our family. We may not be perfect, and there are a lot of challenges but I know I can do it because I love my kids and I care for them so much.
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@Mga_715 (89)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Dec 20
@Susnshine thank you so much for your kind words. I am not perfect but you know I am trying my best to be a good mother to my children. I hope you get what you want in the future. Just continue to pray hard for what you want. God bless you too =)
@Susnshine (12)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
27 Dec 20
You are such a great mom, and both with your husband has been done something good to your family. I hope you can always be strong, healthy, and patience to do your best for your family.
And hoping i can be a mother like you someday and find the best husband to be my partner for handling our child
May God bless you and your family, mam :)
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@99Bring_lix (27)
• Pontianak, Indonesia
26 Dec 20
I thought if they were rude to their kids we better not fight back. oh yeah recently I saw Mamber from Indonesia. salam kenal ya :)
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
28 Dec 20
@Susnshine
If you see a mother mistreating her child in anyway that is not right and something should be done about them.
@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 20
there must be a reason for harsh treatment. Find out before giving your solution
@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
26 Dec 20
These days not many mom's or parents treat their kids harshly
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
2 Jan 21
Once I saw a woman hit her kid with a trolley in a supermarket and screamed "HOW THE F*CK DO YOU LIKE IT" because the kid had accidentally pushed the trolley into her once. This kid was bleeding and screaming because his mother just knocked him over with a trolley. I went over and told her to pull her head out of her a$$ and security was called. Another woman punched her kid and I went over to separate them. At Christmas, one of the dads there threatened to smack his kid so I told him I would do the same to him and see how he liked it he shut up and sat down after that. I never would have hit him but he doesn't know that.
At least if you're gonna judge then judge everyone because at least then you aren't discriminatory :p
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@Sam_graphixer (2465)
• India
28 Dec 20
NO not at all ..... no matter what is the reason you can't cant behave harshly with your child ... this will ruin the kid