No one wore mask.

@Cheyee (8344)
Pakanbaru, Indonesia
January 10, 2021 5:07am CST
I just got home from wedding party. Not sure if i could call eat party because we just prayed for the happiness of the groom and bride, and then ate. I regretted going to that event because no one wore mask. I dragged my chair away and didnt took my mask off except when i ate. I didnt even greet the groom and bride. After eating we got back home. If there is an invitation next time, i will try to find a good excuse so i dont need to attend it.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
10 Jan 21
I am really sorry that your husband decided to go, I was sure it was not safe.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
10 Jan 21
@Cheyee A crowded room is the worst place where to stay, no matter the distance.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
@LadyDuck I stayed outside. Just groom, bride and close family were in the inside. Most of the guests were outside.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
Yes, that's why we dragged our chairs away from crowded.
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@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
10 Jan 21
Please,avoid these happening!!Is it possible??what does police say???!!
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
Police won't do anything tbh.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
@Giannna people in my country don't care about could. Police can't do much except giving warning.
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@Giannna (1040)
• Novi Sad, Serbia
10 Jan 21
@Cheyee do they have order from goverment to do something or they do not?!
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
10 Jan 21
We should avoid gathering if it is not really important. And if ever we can't avoid it, we should always follow the health protocols. Stay safe.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
We didn't plan to go until my husband's brother called. We planned to 'accidentally' forget about it.
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
10 Jan 21
That's very unsafe. How about the physical distance of the attendees? Was it followed?
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
Nope. They don't care at all
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• India
10 Jan 21
I don't see many wearing mask here too when I went for a get together Last month. Better we excuse and don't go next time
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
Yes, I will try to find an excuse next time
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@Hytton03 (5451)
• Philippines
10 Jan 21
Yeah just to be safe don't attend next time.
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@Hytton03 (5451)
• Philippines
11 Jan 21
@Cheyee new sad that's not.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
Yes, I won't go next time. I attended one wedding party before this one. But people there did all health protocols, I thought this time would be the same.
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@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 21
Shouldn't the governor there forbid holding weddings if health protocols weren't practiced there?
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
Yes, only if they know.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 21
That's crazy! Some just don't care, Covid or not. They think the whole thing is a hoax.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 21
@Cheyee it's hard to argue with people like that. They'll believe what they want to believe.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@prinzcy exactly. They don't understand and don't want to understand. Actually I don't have problem if they don't understand, but the problem is they can't respect my decision.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
True. All my in laws don't believe it.
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@allknowing (136369)
• India
11 Jan 21
My sister who is running a school had a small party and I saw the photos without masks. It is not right
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@allknowing (136369)
• India
11 Jan 21
@Cheyee The thing is how long can people live with restrictions is what everyone is talking about
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
Here, schools are still closed for almost a year. Not sure when government will open it since our cases gone haywire right now.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@allknowing people really don't have patience. Party and mingling are not basic needs. Why can't they wait...
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
10 Jan 21
since you're pregnant i think it's safer to avoid any gatherings for now.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
I won't go if it wasn't close family. And we didn't plan to go
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
11 Jan 21
Had I gone to the event and found nobody else wearing a mask, I would have left... It might upset the hosts but they shouldn't endanger others just because they were getting married. NOTHING is more important than our health! I seriously hope nobody had Covid 19 at the party!
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
12 Jan 21
@Cheyee I do understand. I'm just worried about you being pregnant with the possibility of catching Covid. I don't want you and the baby sick. I don't go to parties because I don't know what to do or how to act at parties. I'm always afraid people will think I'm stupid and a klutz. *shrug*
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
I was planning to leave but I can't because it's close family. The party was held in my brother in law's house. And my parents in law were there. I already have bad reputation for being arrogant (I am not arrogant, i am just an awkward woman, I don't know how to mingle). And I don't go to family gathering often.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@DaddyEvil I was worried too. Still hope I won't catch anything there. We are just the same. But my face is truly the opposite of my personality.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
11 Jan 21
@Cheyee That is sad that you were the only one wearing a mask. I would find an excuse too the next time because that is horrible that they do not care.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
11 Jan 21
@Cheyee I found that people do not understand if you do not want to go to something. I am sorry you have to find an excuse instead of being able to talk to them.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@Hannihar yes, they don't understand. My in laws don't believe covid at all
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
Yeah, next time I will use my kids as an excuse or maybe my pregnancy (I am almost my due, and moving too much makes me tired, it's not an excuse right? It's the fact)
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• Philippines
11 Jan 21
Oh, that was alarming
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
Very alarming
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@rhuenz (10643)
10 Jan 21
That's risky then,,mask is necessary and social distancing.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
10 Jan 21
I did wear mask and drag my chair away.
@ptrikha_2 (46951)
• India
10 Jan 21
We went to a marriage event two weeks back. People did wear masks, but many were talking to each other without them. There was a limited gathering of 30 people from our side. Yet one does has doubts whether one would be safe afterwards.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
I think I read your post about it. It was outside wedding party, right?
• Philippines
10 Jan 21
OM! That is so irresponsible! The wedding planner should put that on their priority list - mask and face shield. That is so risky! Does the bride and groom had their own mask? That is so irresponsible! I hope you and your family and everyone who attended the wedding are fine. God bless.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
It was just small event. Family and neighbors. No one wore mask except my husband and I.
@RebeccasFarm (89882)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Jan 21
Oh no is it safe
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
11 Jan 21
Not safe at all.
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