How sad is it to have pets instead of children?

Two different subjects. I lost my son, and have two cats. Not the same.

My wife and I tried to have kids, but it didn't work out. So, now we have a cat again. I am perfectly fine with it.

I have 2 daughters and now a dog. I could not compare them.

this is non sense. Some people for whatever reasons cannot have children. Some prefer not to have one. I think having pet is a choice as well as having children (for those who do not have medical issues). Pet is family too

Cats and dogs are like my children since they are loyal to their owner.

No it is not sad at all. I always ask people why have children if you can't afford proper care for them? I don't think just in financial angle. Some people just are not ready for kids.

You are so wise Diana..those people that said that are ridiculous.

It's only sad if someone wants children and they cannot have children.

I agree with you. I have had cats all my life and I have loved them all and I am thinking about adopting another cat soon.

That is a horrible thing for someone to say. People don't know your situation. I was told I couldn't have anymore, but was lucky enough to have my baby boy a few months ago, but before that, my aunt asked my daughter when I was going to give her a sibling. That hit hard because my daughter has always wanted a sibling. She has one now, but it still makes me mad that people ask stupid questions like that.

When children grow up, get married and leave, you can’t replace then while pets can always be replaced with a new one when they leave/die.

I don't understand why people are so judgemental. Everyone can live their lives the way they want. Everyone is different and derive happiness in different ways. U keep it up and take care

@dya80dya Someone who has a child or children probably told you that. And that's ok with me, I respect. It is normal for someone who has children to talk like that, but again I understand people who for any reason cannot or do not want to have children, say the opposite ..

My son and his wife have decided they will not have children. they do have a cat and are very happy. Nothing wrong with that choice.

I don't and I don't care what people think. People can think of anything. They never contribute anything in the end. Just talk, that's all they can do.

No is not a bad idea ,we are different everyone has his or her likes and dislike .As long as you are fine with them there is no need for you to worry ,just be who you are then everything will be okay you'll see, I like kids and I can expect everyone to be like me .