Why people can't accept apology anymore? / myLot

Croatia (Hrvatska)

February 7, 2021 3:38am CST

Recently I notice people can't accept apology anymore and forgot mistakes, even small ones. I understand for big insults but even small things you said no intentional is like you offend them on worst level. Also when we write some things is harder express, at least for me, and if I send appology for small mistak, I think it is fair accept it. What happend to people?

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10 responses

DianneN

@DianneN (247186)

• United States

7 Feb 21

Some people are quickly offended. I believe they are very insecure or can’t take a joke. It’s their problem, not ours. I forgive, but never forget.

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Mrki Krki

@mrki444 (15149)

• Croatia (Hrvatska)

7 Feb 21

But if it was small mistake, why not forget it?

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@ZedSmart (19786)

• Philippines

7 Feb 21

Some people are just hard to please and would make it a big deal and will fairly treat you as an enemy.

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Mrki Krki

@mrki444 (15149)

• Croatia (Hrvatska)

7 Feb 21

So I avoid such people.

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anil02

@anil02 (24688)

• India

7 Feb 21

@mrki444 Mistake is possible from any one, small word sorry is solution of thousand problem, It is better than to defend on our mistake to say sorry, topic will closed. If some one don't want to forgive than it is his will, but we know that God forgive us for our mistake

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anil02

@anil02 (24688)

• India

7 Feb 21

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (112966)

• El Paso, Texas

10 Feb 21

I have no idea why so many people are like that these days. Small mistakes should be forgiven if an apology is offered.

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Mrki Krki

@mrki444 (15149)

• Croatia (Hrvatska)

11 Feb 21

Especially if it is done few seconds later. Some people realize very fast when they make mistake.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (342112)

• Rockingham, Australia

7 Feb 21

Some people are quick to take offence. It's a shame as it makes it hard to interact with them.

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Mrki Krki

@mrki444 (15149)

• Croatia (Hrvatska)

7 Feb 21

But from my experience there is every day more and more such people.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (342112)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Feb 21

@mrki444 Yes, I think you are right. People are as polite and/or civil as they used to be.

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Dr Souvik Chatterji

@sathviksouvik (19698)

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25 Feb 23

it is good to apologize if one feels the person has done something wrong

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Rashna Gandhi

@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

7 Feb 21

True indeed. Not everyone has the courage to forgive. Have a good day

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Mrki Krki

@mrki444 (15149)

• Croatia (Hrvatska)

7 Feb 21

Thanks. Enjoy in yours to.

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Rashna Gandhi

@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

8 Feb 21

@mrki444 your welcome dear

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Stephannie

@stephcjh (38473)

• United States

2 Mar 21

Some people are just right down rude these days. They do not care about others feelings. They take everything negative these days it seems. A simple joke can start a huge argument. People do not value an apology anymore. Some people abuse it also. Some people do not know what a genuine, meaningful apology is.

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popciclecold

@popciclecold (39510)

• United States

25 Feb 23

People are more hard hearted today.

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emerson emelas

@emelas (120)

• Maputo, Mozambique

7 Feb 21

Then it depends on the person, I really like to forgive because I feel good about myself

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rhuenz

@rhuenz (10643)

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7 Feb 21

They hardened their heart. Things should not,for the word of God says; Matthew 6:14-15 ESV / 8 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

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