Love is beautiful
By Chiles sims
@Doctor_love32 (25)
Zambia
7 responses
@RitzzView (3038)
• India
8 Feb 21
Loving wrong person will not lead it to future with them. Only thing that makes us stay is hope, that someday things will change....when it doesn't happen, we move on.
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
8 Feb 21
I guess it's a painful experience and disappointing ??, can we say love leads to disappointment and later , is there something like know before we love, or it's love then know maybe work out or down again mmmm??, maybe someway that will do justice to the heart of young person @Ritzzvirw
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@RitzzView (3038)
• India
8 Feb 21
@Doctor_love32 I have a very different outlook on love. The concept of "the one", " love hurts" or "true love comes easy" is not my deal.
Its all movie show, and we all know movies are fiction.
I believe, loving wrong person is still loving.
And sadness or disappointment is part of life, it has nothing to do with ONLY love!
And if we don't know what is wrong for us, how will we ever know whats even right?
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
8 Feb 21
@RitzzView true what you are saying are reality, in other words you are say before we find love it's important to know ourselves before getting flowing with love, is it so? So love is beautiful ?? but can hurt really bad ??,. So the key is to guide heart right but am wondering how do you bend love ?????
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
9 Feb 21
@Millymil you are very right I think that's the key a relationship takes work
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
9 Feb 21
Well, this question is worded rather vaguely, so it's hard to say exactly, but if the person is "wrong" then isn't that what we call an unhealthy relationship? "Love" isn't always love and not being able to see someone for who they are can be dangerous and have detrimental consequences that can affect both parties for life. However, someone can not be "the one" and still be an important person in one's life. People can date and later find out that they prefer to be platonic friends or something like that.
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@just4him (317315)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Feb 21
@Doctor_love32 You jump to all kinds of conclusions. I'm old school. I'm talking about dating. That's also a relationship.
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
9 Feb 21
@ValerieJRouthieux I don't think thats the best, they must be long date before a relationship
@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
9 Feb 21
@just4him true I was just agreei with valued point you made. Thank you
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@innertalks (22112)
• Australia
8 Feb 21
There are many types of love.
Some are shallow, floating only on the surface of love; some go much deeper, and also connect to the underlying love behind all love, which is Universal, love, or God's love.
We learn to love deeper by loving shallowly at first, and so there is no wrong form of love.
Love who you wilt, and love will either take you away, or bring you closer to this person.
As somebody once said, it is better to have loved, even if it is loving the wrong person, than never to have loved at all.
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@innertalks (22112)
• Australia
9 Feb 21
@Doctor_love32 If we are not meant to be with this person, and if we have love in our hearts, love will take us away from them in some way, and lead us to someone else.
This happened to me too.
I was infatuatedly in love with someone, but then so many difficulties prevented us from being together.
Then for some reason, I met this lady's cousin, and I realised right away that she was the one that I should have been going with.
Eventually, we married.
Love took me away from the first, and led me to the second.
There is another way that love can be taken away from us too, that is, if we do not love.
"For to the one who has, more will be given, and he will have an abundance, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away."
Matthew, chapter 13, verse 12, from the Christian Bible.
So, if we give out love, we get more back, but if we refuse to give out love, even that what we have, buried in our hearts, will be taken away, and further lost in us too.
It is the same in life, we lose what we do not use.
Our brainpower, our muscle strength, all are lost, if we stop using them, frequently so.
@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
10 Feb 21
@innertalks am loving this deep insight it has cleared my mind, your articulating is not from this planet thank you and thank God. Love leads
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
9 Feb 21
@SteverMarshall Lovely that's a point, am just a little bit curious, Love can take away ,
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
10 Feb 21
@Doctor_love32 The one who let go released the rope and the one holding will fall because of the force released. 
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
9 Feb 21
@Ma.LourdesMacaya Interesting I thought the the one who hold the rope last is winner, meaning the letting the rope its wining I guess it's not easy
@Carson20t (12)
• Lusaka, Zambia
14 Feb 21
I just want to stress that my line of thought marries with those who have said we love blindly meaning its like a string or rope.You hold on to one side and another to the other side.We don't get to choose for the other to let go of their side if there is a challenge.But we work hard to Learn and understand the other and give all we are required to give knowingly and unknowingly.That becomes the strength of the relationship.With that you can eliminate anything unhealthy in the relationship.
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@Doctor_love32 (25)
• Zambia
14 Feb 21
True thank you for the word, wealth of word
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