How writing a long post on MyLot would COST me money!

@TheHorse (218890)
Walnut Creek, California
February 16, 2021 12:29pm CST
I finally got through to my "flaky" boss at one of the preschools where I sometimes sub. Actually I guess I'm the head teacher, but she has kids some days, and other days she doesn't. I called her earlier, and the call dropped (on her end) before she could tell me whether she needed me today or not. Frustrating. But I just got through and she said to come in as soon as I could. So off I go. Have you ever worked for someone who is a bit flaky? How did you handle it?
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@FourWalls (68043)
• United States
16 Feb 21
I've had bosses who were beyond flaky. They'd have to improve dramatically to work up to flaky. How I handled it: I retired.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
Many of my elementary and high school teacher friends are thinking of doing that right now. I gather it's a national trend.
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@FourWalls (68043)
• United States
16 Feb 21
@TheHorse — I think it cycles around. When I was in college in the mid-90s most of my classmates were teachers who were coming back for a second masters in library science so they could get out of teaching.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
@FourWalls What was it that made them want to be librarians rather than teachers?
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@LindaOHio (178772)
• United States
17 Feb 21
Not flaky...just difficult. I'm so glad I'm retired.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
17 Feb 21
same here. Not flaky but most are difficult.
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@vandana7 (100288)
• India
17 Feb 21
Me too. Tough bosses. It is easier to work with task masters than with unorganized folks with erratic workload.
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@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
Retirement does have its benefits, doesn't it?
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@xander6464 (44250)
• Wapello, Iowa
17 Feb 21
I've worked for some real flakes, too. I handle it by ignoring them as much as possible.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
It's a pain when they have authority/power over you.
@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
I would assume, in any work environment, the flaky one would be you.
@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
16 Feb 21
Yup! I kept as low a profile as I could and cheered when she got fired!
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
17 Feb 21
@TheHorse I felt a little bad after I cheered, but only for a couple of minutes. She was bad!
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
I've seen some nasty people get fired. I tried real hard not to smile.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
I have done exactly the same.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
16 Feb 21
I worked with a woman for many years who I truly believe pretended to be so incompetent because there's no way it could have been real. The only reason she never got fired was because it was a local government job.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
17 Feb 21
@TheHorse Ours was. But not me, of course.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
I worked with a woman at the Synagogue who was so incompetent she lost the place thousands of dollars, lost the people working under her thousands of dollars (insurance issues), and was never fired. To this day (she has moved on to a "higher paying" job) I think she still has "delusions of adequacy." I am not into Schadenfreude, but I hope Karma catches up with her.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
Are local governments known for hiring incompetents?
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@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb 21
I've never had a boss like that, thank goodness. Best thing to do is 'think of the money'.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
I have been blessed to enjoy most of my jobs. The people at Diablo Valley College are nice, and the people at Guitar Center are as well. The lady described in this post turned out to be a total criminal, ripping off government agencies and abusing the kids she worked with. I have been out of there for awhile now. It was more serious than I thought.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
@porwest But bad coworkers can make your life miserable.
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@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
That's a perfect way to look at it. Let them be flaky. You can laugh all the way to the bank. lol
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@patgalca (18368)
• Orangeville, Ontario
16 Feb 21
Um... what does that have to do with the title?
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
@porwest My "fun" (local) money is going into fixed income funds right now. I don't want to deal with risk.
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@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
@TheHorse "Risk" is subjective. It's definition in investing is determined by the level of experience of the investor. What you may find risky, I may find rather conservative.
@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
@TheHorse That's why I invest in the stock market. It makes me the real money I need, then I can decide to do whatever I want and there's no real loss to occur. Or at least that's what I tell myself. lol
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@Tampa_girl7 (50258)
• United States
16 Feb 21
How frustrating
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
I had a good time anyway.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50258)
• United States
16 Feb 21
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
@Tampa_girl7 We had a pretty "chill" morning.
@akalinus (43196)
• United States
16 Feb 21
Flaky is good for pie crusts, not bosses. Yeah, I had a couple. I just remembered who signs the paycheck and act accordingly.
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
18 Feb 21
@TheHorse Disallowed by who? MyLot?
@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
That needs to be put on a plaque to hang on someone's wall. That's PERFECT. "Flaky is good for pie crusts. Not bosses." If I still had an office, I'd print that out for sure and put it on my wall. lol
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
17 Feb 21
I had bosses who were egoistic. And one who was beyond repair. I tolerated them all but was never easy. One bad apple is enough to spoil the whole lot.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
How do they not get "busted"?
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
@Shiva49 When I worked in Oakland, I wound up doing others' work for them. They were hired for reasons other than competence. .
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
17 Feb 21
@TheHorse The director was a kind hearted man and tolerated her. But I was the one who suffered most as she avoided work like the plague. She would never have survived at another place even for a couple of days.
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@dgobucks226 (35615)
17 Feb 21
Don't remember any flaky bosses but had plenty of overbearing, arrogant ones with a power complex.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
This lady actually turned out to be a criminal. She is abusive toward the kids she works with, and has a violent developmentally delayed son who helps her "watch" them. I reported her to the proper authorities, but there is little they can do.
@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
@porwest The worst bosses I have had were under-educated, semi-competent, and intimidated by people who were educated and/or good at what they do.
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@porwest (90911)
• United States
9 Jul
Most of the time I found those were the ones who never worked a day in their lives, graduated college, were instantly in charge, and had NO IDEA what the hell they were doing.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 21
I think I have never worked for someone who's flaky
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
You are blessed. And obviously don't live in the pathetic United States.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Feb 21
I have had flaky bosses. Stay safe and enjoy the day.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
@CarolDM I am safe at home now, a few dollars richer.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
Heh. In the end, that's what I do.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Feb 21
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@ladyhero (3846)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 21
I have never worked with a leader who is fragile, all my leaders are hard people, sometimes often disagree
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
Hard in what sense?
@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
16 Feb 21
Not that I can remember. I hope you have a good day with the kids.
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@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
16 Feb 21
@TheHorse Glad to hear it
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
I only worked a couple of hours, but it turned out well.
@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
@Tina30219 I really enjoy working with younguns. You can hear their language improve almost ever day.
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
16 Feb 21
I did at a certain point in my life and did not enjoy it one bit
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
Alas, I have worked for many bosses who suffered from one form of recto-cranial inversion or another.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
19 Feb 21
I don’t like flaky pies. And flaky boss
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 21
@sol_cee But a flaky scalp doesn't do it for me.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Feb 21
I prefer a flaky pie to a flaky boss.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
19 Feb 21
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@thelme55 (77081)
• Germany
16 Feb 21
Just enjoy your day with the kids.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
I did. I was the only teacher there, so the kids were good, and we just played. Finally I read them a couple of books while they snuggled on stingray etc. giant pillows.
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@porwest (90911)
• United States
18 Feb 21
Don't we all, ultimately? At least at one point or another. I just be flaky back. That way they can better relate to me. lol
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Jul
@porwest I'd be bummed if they fired me at Guitar Center. I have relationships with my students, and I value those. It's not just about the money. I am teaching what I love the most.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
If they resent your competence, there can be negative consequences.
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@porwest (90911)
• United States
10 Jul
@TheHorse What would the consequence be? They'd fire me? I always made sure they needed me more than I needed them. There was always money in the bank to say "eff you," and if they said "eff me," it wasn't going to break me. Money may not be the end all to be all. But if you have it, it gives one a LOT of power and freedom to choose and makes it so less people have power over you. I never considered my employment a necessity. I considered it a mutual agreement between me and the boss. Both of us had terms. If they did not meet mine I'd leave and likewise if I didn't meet theirs they'd tell me to leave. Neither situation would have any impact on me whatsoever, and that gave me a great deal of comfort.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
17 Feb 21
Luckily never landed up with a boss who is flaky. Have been lucky on work front. But yes have met many such flaky people in friends and relatives. How I deal with it? Once I find it out, I try to avoid any acquaintance with them.
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