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By The Horse
@TheHorse (218890)
Walnut Creek, California
February 16, 2021 12:29pm CST
I finally got through to my "flaky" boss at one of the preschools where I sometimes sub. Actually I guess I'm the head teacher, but she has kids some days, and other days she doesn't.
I called her earlier, and the call dropped (on her end) before she could tell me whether she needed me today or not. Frustrating. But I just got through and she said to come in as soon as I could. So off I go.
Have you ever worked for someone who is a bit flaky? How did you handle it?
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@FourWalls (68043)
• United States
16 Feb 21
I've had bosses who were beyond flaky. They'd have to improve dramatically to work up to flaky.
How I handled it: I retired.
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@FourWalls (68043)
• United States
16 Feb 21
@TheHorse — I think it cycles around. When I was in college in the mid-90s most of my classmates were teachers who were coming back for a second masters in library science so they could get out of teaching.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
@FourWalls What was it that made them want to be librarians rather than teachers?
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@LindaOHio (178772)
• United States
17 Feb 21
Not flaky...just difficult. I'm so glad I'm retired.
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@xander6464 (44250)
• Wapello, Iowa
17 Feb 21
I've worked for some real flakes, too. I handle it by ignoring them as much as possible.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
16 Feb 21
Yup! I kept as low a profile as I could and cheered when she got fired!
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
17 Feb 21
@TheHorse I felt a little bad after I cheered, but only for a couple of minutes. She was bad!
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
16 Feb 21
I worked with a woman for many years who I truly believe pretended to be so incompetent because there's no way it could have been real. The only reason she never got fired was because it was a local government job.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
17 Feb 21
@TheHorse Ours was. But not me, of course.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
I worked with a woman at the Synagogue who was so incompetent she lost the place thousands of dollars, lost the people working under her thousands of dollars (insurance issues), and was never fired. To this day (she has moved on to a "higher paying" job) I think she still has "delusions of adequacy." I am not into Schadenfreude, but I hope Karma catches up with her.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
I have been blessed to enjoy most of my jobs. The people at Diablo Valley College are nice, and the people at Guitar Center are as well. The lady described in this post turned out to be a total criminal, ripping off government agencies and abusing the kids she worked with. I have been out of there for awhile now. It was more serious than I thought.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb 21
@Tampa_girl7 We had a pretty "chill" morning.
@dgobucks226 (35615)
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17 Feb 21
Don't remember any flaky bosses but had plenty of overbearing, arrogant ones with a power complex.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Jul
This lady actually turned out to be a criminal. She is abusive toward the kids she works with, and has a violent developmentally delayed son who helps her "watch" them. I reported her to the proper authorities, but there is little they can do.
@freelancermariagrace (28012)
• Philippines
17 Feb 21
I think I have never worked for someone who's flaky
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@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
16 Feb 21
Not that I can remember. I hope you have a good day with the kids.
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@TheHorse (218890)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Feb 21
@Tina30219 I really enjoy working with younguns. You can hear their language improve almost ever day.
@porwest (90911)
• United States
10 Jul
@TheHorse What would the consequence be? They'd fire me? I always made sure they needed me more than I needed them. There was always money in the bank to say "eff you," and if they said "eff me," it wasn't going to break me.
Money may not be the end all to be all. But if you have it, it gives one a LOT of power and freedom to choose and makes it so less people have power over you.
I never considered my employment a necessity. I considered it a mutual agreement between me and the boss. Both of us had terms. If they did not meet mine I'd leave and likewise if I didn't meet theirs they'd tell me to leave.
Neither situation would have any impact on me whatsoever, and that gave me a great deal of comfort.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
17 Feb 21
Luckily never landed up with a boss who is flaky. Have been lucky on work front. But yes have met many such flaky people in friends and relatives. How I deal with it? Once I find it out, I try to avoid any acquaintance with them.
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