Don't Date if you are still Healing

March 3, 2021 5:38am CST
Most of us give in to the pressure,doing our best to become as interesting as possible to replace the pain that we feel,while some of us just wait until they really find someone who matches their soul.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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3 Mar 21
I agree on the title given. Wait till the pain fully recovered. What others do,they look for someone to heal the wound of the past...
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Karen Ramos
@Kaguira (20)
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3 Mar 21
Yeah they never realize they are just creating another pain
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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3 Mar 21
@Kaguira exactly
Stephannie
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
3 Mar 21
Yes. No one wants to hurt or feel alone but it is best to wait and make sure.
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Michele
@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
3 Mar 21
I agree.
Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 21
I disagree. If you need a spouse/love-affair, you are broken and will remain broken UNTIL you meet someone new. If you're NOT broken, then no spouse/love-affair will ever be good enough! (That must be why I'm still single; I'm perfect already )
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (29317)
• Lichfield, England
5 Mar 21
I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 12!
Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4220)
• Philippines
6 Mar 21
@Kaguira I have been in situations that is really painful , family matters, work, relations ..I accepted painful, happy situations. I broke down but I got up .That's life I guess. But I am not into finding someone right now. I guess it will come at the right time .Im focused on rebuilding myself first .
Nurfadillah
@Bubba90 (1755)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
yes, dating during the healing from a broken heart will break the heart of someone who is with us, sometimes we deliberately tell stories about our exes, and indirectly it breaks the heart of someone who has dated us.
Michele
@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
3 Mar 21
Or maybe just don’t call it dating.
Lucky Roo
@youfiq (2565)
• United States
5 Mar 21
it's better to wait for the right time than to stay in a relationship in a state of sickness and an unstable and volatile spirit, at least the time we spend waiting can make our souls mature