How I'm dealing with annoying one in my team

Indonesia
March 4, 2021 10:51pm CST
there mustn't be two suns shining. I stick to that principle every time I feel annoyed with a friend, so I just wait and see what happens. I have a teammate who always feels right, always wants to be heard and doesn't accept other's opinions. but the funny is, on many occasions to appear, he never wants to show his appearance. typical who can only scream from the back like this is a coward for me. he wants to be recognized but doesn't have a dare to be a leader in forward line, in the other words he doesn't have a dare to take the risk as a leader. that's why I'm so pissed off, because he always dictates others to do his will. for others who just being the followers because the laziness to think, this guy is less annoying. but for me whom not easy to follow someone unless he can show the right data or information, I am very upset. but to keep the peace of the team I often keep silence. yes, when we're argueing, I often end it with silence. and when it was proven that I was right, I just give my devil smile enjoying his embarrassed face. once in a forum he whispered to a friend and forced him to express his opinion, but in the end I was the one who opened mouth but didn't speak about his opinion, of course I told my own opinion and I got appreciation from our boss. it means that I was on the right side, wasn't I? he's pissed off, but I think I'm not guilty at all. he also has own brain and own mouth, so why should I use my mouth to speak the contents of his brains? how much can you pay to rent my mouth, dude? does anyone have experience with this type of people too?
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
5 Mar 21
There are all kinds of people one has to deal with. The best way is to maintain a distance and avoid confrontation as it spoils your image and the other person won't change. Take care and stay strong
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
5 Mar 21
@Essegrape your welcome dear
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
6 Mar 21
@Rashnag Even in silence you can be seen and heard and so no need to show off. There are so many narcissist.
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
yes, I will and keep strong. thank you
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@Bubba90 (1755)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
we can find people like this anywhere
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
Unfortunately yes. OMG
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@Bubba90 (1755)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
@Essegrape yess that's right
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
5 Mar 21
I have dealt with these types of people all of my life.
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
Hahahaha it turns out that we can’t completely avoid annoying people in our life, can we?
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@allknowing (138327)
• India
6 Mar 21
Those are challenges one has to face I guess. Hope you know how to handle this guy
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
5 Mar 21
I just let people like that talk, because that's all they can do.. just kidding. What i will not agree with it when another person takes credit for a job well done of others.
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
Waaaah just like a thief. I knew some people like that too. How can people claim others result without feeling guilty. Very very annoying
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
5 Mar 21
Yes there are kinds of those people in this world
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
ever met too? haha
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• Kenya
5 Mar 21
@Essegrape yea so annoying but you try to stay calm
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• Indonesia
5 Mar 21
@Laurakemunto stay calm because we love peace, right?
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
9 Mar 21
Yes. I find that's where it's best just to focus on The Big Picture---sort of like Lord Jesus says in The Lord's Prayer, where Our Father gives us 'Our Daily Bread' (which you might interpret as 'the job you have to do to make sure you-&-yours are safe, secure, well-rested, well-fed & comfortable'). And He lets the garbage float away, unless you cling to it.
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
6 Mar 21
Action speaks louder than words. If he wants to prove his side then he should lead and show what he wants to explain and that is if he can't elaborate in words.