The one you love or the one who loves you?
@nyvenrsarj (90)
Cebu, Philippines
March 25, 2021 3:29am CST
I will personally choose the one who loves me, I'm done giving my all to someone wasted my effort., It's a waste of energy and time. When you know that person loves you, it's not that hard to love him/her back. Stop hurting yourself for someone who doesn't even care about your feelings., go find someone that will take care of it.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
26 Mar 21
@nyvenrsarj I understand how you feel. I hope you feel better.
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
26 Mar 21
@cherigucchi I am much better now Cheri, with my little family and a loving partner.. Thank you
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
it will work when you two are in the same page. For me I can no longer waste my time because i am not getting any younger. It's hard to invest love without any guarantee.. you will end up loosing your self. unlike when someone shows you love, it feels great.
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
thank you for your opinion, take care too
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
true! that's what happened to me. right now we are happy and contented with simple and peaceful life with our little one. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. stay safe
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@sharonelton (28672)
• Lichfield, England
26 Mar 21
That's all well and good but what if you just don't like the person who loves you? When I was at Burton-on-Trent Technical College for my YTS I went to a Christian bookshop and a guy met me there who I'd never seen before and he suddenly said he was in love with me and wanted to marry me and have ten kids with me! He was Asian and he said he was half Christian and half Muslim! I just didn't like him and I told him I wasn't interested.
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
28 Mar 21
It's a case to case basis to love back the one who showed you interest and love. it's a part of their life as a man that's why we have so called courtship.. it's how a man win a woman's heart.. unless if you're a woman who can also do courtship to a guy hehe. that's rare and for some woman who are brave enough to admit they like that certain guy, I salute them. I was one of them... but got rejected because he is in love with someone else and that's fine. It gave me reason to stop what im feeling and move on with life..
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
thank you for sharing your opinion and I also agree. We dont live to please people who dont like us. Always choose the ones who love you, in that way.. they will not do anything to hurt you.
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 21
sorry to hear that, always remember to stand up after ever fall.. and still believe in love no matter how worst it may be.. there will always be someone for you. Take care always
@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
28 Mar 21
yes absolutely.. just a waste of time and effort..
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
29 Mar 21
Ah yes, I was in one of those relationships... Now I am with a man I have known for 10 years through which he liked me consistently for 10 years and I never really caught on... Yes, it was really that long so yes I am as thick as the concrete slabs he lays for a living... He said I'm his first love and hopefully his last and frankly I agree
@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
26 Mar 21
@nyvenrsarj The one who loves you is much better. The key to harmony is a two-way relationship, give and take. Respect begets respect.
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@nyvenrsarj (90)
• Cebu, Philippines
26 Mar 21
100% agree.. it's easy to love back when you knew that person loves you.
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