And now I finally have my other $50!
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
Perth, Australia
April 1, 2021 5:42am CST
This is a continue on from a couple posts I've done recently regarding a friend who owed me money. I wasn't expecting to get the other half any time soon but surprisingly I did! 
She told me she was going to pay me the other half next Thursday to which I thought "Yeah you probably won't." But she actually transferred me the other half yesterday. I'm very happy about that. After over a year, she has finally given me the full amount. After all the excuses / some lies, her not contacting me regarding it, not paying me the days she said she would, I finally have the damn money! 
I must say too, the other night when she said she didn't have the other $50, I saw her post a post on a Buying and Selling page asking for a dress for her baby for roughly $50. Interesting.... So I "Liked" the post as a way to say "I see you." 
Anyway, for those of you who know about this, just a random update, the amount is finally fully paid and I'm never lending her a cent ever again. 
Thank you for reading, hope all is well. Will see you all a bit later. 
She told me she was going to pay me the other half next Thursday to which I thought "Yeah you probably won't." But she actually transferred me the other half yesterday. I'm very happy about that. After over a year, she has finally given me the full amount. After all the excuses / some lies, her not contacting me regarding it, not paying me the days she said she would, I finally have the damn money!
I must say too, the other night when she said she didn't have the other $50, I saw her post a post on a Buying and Selling page asking for a dress for her baby for roughly $50. Interesting.... So I "Liked" the post as a way to say "I see you."
Anyway, for those of you who know about this, just a random update, the amount is finally fully paid and I'm never lending her a cent ever again.
Thank you for reading, hope all is well. Will see you all a bit later. 17 people like this
18 responses
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13 if she's a good friend you don't even need to charge her but rather she should hand over the money plus a little extra
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@LadyDuck (471338)
• Switzerland
15 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13 I see below that you found the right word to describe this woman "careless", she seems only interested in herself, may be it is the way she grew up, a family where people do not care.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@LadyDuck You know, as much as I would hope she knew I knew, something tells me she didn't catch on. She's not dumb! She's just....I don't know the right word. Not completely good with common sense? In her mind she probably just saw I liked her post and thought nothing of it and not thinking that I know the truth.
Not in a mean way. I've just observed that her and well, her sister, brother and mother....lack....something. But I don't know the correct word.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@LadyDuck Careless is sort of the word I'm thinking of.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
1 Apr 21
Thank goodness your “friend” finally paid you and nice work on the liking of her post. She’s really something!
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
16 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13 Great and now its time to forget her existence!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@toniganzon I loved your comment! I agree with you! I'm still kinda in disbelief with how she acted throughout this. But I'm glad it's over!
I'm still kinda in disbelief with how she acted throughout this. But I'm glad it's over!1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
16 Apr 21
@toniganzon I will still continue to be her friend as it will only make things awkward for me and her brother (who I'm seeing) too complicated. Only thing I will change is never giving her things with a chance of never getting it back.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
16 Apr 21
@marlina I wouldn't even lend her a DVD or book because I truly believe she is one of those people who would lose it. I don't like when people do that with other people's belongings.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@marlina Major relief! I promise to never lend her anything. Money or anything in general actually.
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@rakski (122335)
• Philippines
15 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13
I am doing good.
I am happy for you, though it might be little for some, 50 is 50. when you borrow, you need to give it back.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@rakski Finally is a great word to express this. Was such a very long and draining time. Thank you kindly! I really hope you are doing alright!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
16 Apr 21
@rakski I am very glad to know you are doing good.
I completely agree with you! I believe that whatever the amount was that was borrowed, should be paid back.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
1 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13
I am so glad you finally got your money from her. I do not blame you for ever lending her anything again. I am sorry it took a long time for her to pay you back. Thanks for sharing with us that you finally got the money from her. I am sorry I do not remember the post.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@Hannihar That is very true. I still have other people who owe me money but I highly doubt I will ever see a dollar of that money. 
That is very true. I still have other people who owe me money but I highly doubt I will ever see a dollar of that money. 1 person likes this
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
15 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13
You are so welcome my friend. You and your family have been through a lot and I hope life gets better for all of you. It is very hard to get money from someone that will not give it to you.
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
28 Feb 22
I don't know why people don't pay right away the amount they owe others. Unless they are in financial difficulty, they shouldn't delay paying. Debt is debt, no matter small or big. In fact if it's small amount then why delay paying it? It may be small to them but it may not be small to the person they owe it to.
edit: I just realized it's an old discussion
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
1 Mar 22
@LittleMel I completely agree with you! No worries about this discussion being old. What you're saying is still extremely valid and like you, I understand if people truly are struggling with money but I seriously dislike it when people say they are struggling to pay people back, meanwhile they are buying expensive things (things they want, no need). It kinda hurts sometimes because I am not rich and when I loan money, I do it out of kindness and dislike the disrespect I get back when I really need the money back.
Thank you so kindly for answering.
What you're saying is still extremely valid and like you, I understand if people truly are struggling with money but I seriously dislike it when people say they are struggling to pay people back, meanwhile they are buying expensive things (things they want, no need). It kinda hurts sometimes because I am not rich and when I loan money, I do it out of kindness and dislike the disrespect I get back when I really need the money back.
Thank you so kindly for answering. 
@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
1 Apr 21
I am super amazed you got it back..maybe you can continue to be casual friends without any money lending going on..
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@snowy22315 Honestly, me too! If she truly was struggling then that would be different but I guess she doesn't think I'm a very observant person.
I agree with you! Won't be doing her any more loaning! Not worth the trouble or the disrespect from her.
I agree with you! Won't be doing her any more loaning! Not worth the trouble or the disrespect from her.1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@Torunn I'm glad you got your money back! Whatever the amount, it's always good to get back.
Oh for sure! Very very slow with poor excuses.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Apr 21
That's a good news. I have a lot of similar experience, lol. I just want to forget it as it is causing me a lot of stress. Some already transferred to a new address and I just considered it a bad debt. I am trying to be as patient as possible with my new business.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@ARIES1973 I don't blame you for wanting to forget it as this sort of situation is very stressful! I'm just very sorry you've dealt with this before! It's not pleasant at all!
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@Shiva49 It's so awful to remind people about what they owe.
I do feel lucky but I honestly feel that if I never said anything, she would have continued to not mention it nor pay me. It was just such a very long time and was never brought up unless I said something.
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@Shiva49 (26665)
• Singapore
15 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13 You did the right thing - you owe that to yourself.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@Shiva49 Thank you Shiva. You're amazing!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@CarolDM Thank you very much. You have a good day too!
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
1 Apr 21
well that is the end of a long and painful story. I am so glad it worked out
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@DocAndersen 
I agree! And thank you kindly. One less thing to worry about now.
I agree! And thank you kindly. One less thing to worry about now.1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@DocAndersen You're not kidding! I am very lucky in so many ways but I am not going to pretend that things don't feel joyful at the moment.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
15 Apr 21
@VivaLaDani13 i think with your dad, you have enough to worry about!
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
I am glad that you have received your money back. You were very lucky. The woman seems not trustworthy at all.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
26 Jan 23
@Treborika Thank you. And you are right. I do not trust her. It's her birthday today and I don't feel like being nice anymore. She's let me down quite a bit and I would like to not be how I used to be and feel walked over / used.
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
26 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 Congratulations for that my dear. I now see you as a woman of your principles which is a very a good feature to women of my likes
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But happy it's over now! 
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
2 Apr 21
Good thing you are able to get your money back somehow. How i wish i can also borrow some from you, Just kidding haha
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
15 Apr 21
@Juliaacv I completely agree with you!
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