family problem
By moshishibie
@moshishibie (252)
China
April 6, 2021 3:33am CST
My good friend encountered a family problem and was very worried. I didn't know how to enlighten her in this aspect, so I came to the community to ask you. Her younger brother wants to buy a car, the full amount is more than 90000 (her younger brother and her parents don't want a loan, they are afraid of paying the interest), and the difference is 20000. She asked her to borrow 10000 (my friend and her husband are working class, each of them has a monthly salary of more than 4000). She discussed this with her husband and decided not to borrow it. The reasons are as follows: first, her younger brother has no stable job, and has been working outside for three days, fishing for two days The second is that my brother works outside and doesn't use the car often, so it's not safe to park the car outside. The third is that my friend is going to decorate the house and is short of money. She and her brother said no, and then her mother called her to ask her to borrow money. Her mother said that her mother would return the money if her brother couldn't afford it (her mother earned money by coolie). She also said that my friend got a fixed salary every month, so it doesn't matter if she lent 10000 yuan. My friend and her mother euphemistically said not to borrow, her mother was angry, said that she had only one brother, did not help, and finally quarreled. This Do you think my friend wants to borrow it?
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@gamayngbaki (1602)
• Cebu, Philippines
7 Apr 21
Your friend has very valid reasons not to lend her brother money but her mother already vouched for her brother so it might have helped change her mind.