“All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players.”

The world’s a stage
@Shiva49 (26765)
Singapore
April 10, 2021 1:04am CST
The words of William Shakespeare ring true every moment of our lives. We try to be ourselves but we have to act our part too. We are son, daughter, husband, wife, father, mother, grandparents, uncles, aunts and whatever at the same time! Most are truthful but still have to play their part while a few others act not only their parts but also hide their true faces. Some want to spread positivism while hurting inside but there are the few whose true colors are revealed when others wake up to their trickery. They have no conscience and take advantage of the trust reposed on them. “My word is my bond “is the best way to live and leave a lasting legacy to inspire others. I try to live by this ideal. How do you play the various roles in your life? "The world’s a stage" from free media site Pexels
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
10 Apr 21
I try to be myself and it is not always easy. Sometimes we need to adjust to please those close to us. Life is indeed a stage and we must play many different roles.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
10 Apr 21
Yes, at a family gathering we are different people to others in the family. A child, parent, or even grandparent at the same time. The best is to be ourselves, no pretenses, as even a child can call us out for our putting on an act.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
11 Apr 21
@Shiva49 You are right, we can do something wrong that even a child can notice.
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@ZedSmart (19786)
• Philippines
10 Apr 21
I'm trying to do good all the time but some people won't give you in return and it really makes me sad and feeling bad.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
10 Apr 21
Sadly there are always the few who are out to take advantage of our kindness, compassion. A few have done so to me not even acknowledging how I had gone out of the way to help them. I am more selective nowadays.
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
10 Apr 21
My dear departed Mama used to say that..my word is my bond..and it was A good way to live RIP I hope your weekend is nice Shiva
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• Arvada, Colorado
10 Apr 21
@Shiva49 Thank you it is sunny and nice here.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
10 Apr 21
Thank you, Ocean Tiara, that approach lightens our load and clears our path. She has set the right and noble example. Hope you have a nice weekend too
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@jobelbojel (36026)
• Philippines
11 Apr 21
The world is a huge stage a person can be. I agree with you, people can wear masks and pretend they are someone else they aren't supposed to be.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
11 Apr 21
Though we can be ourselves, at times we have to adjust to suit the reality. I recall one instance years ago when my boss told something that was wrong to a client, but I kept quiet though I wanted to correct him. People have been wearing masks much before this virus to cover their real intentions.
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@jobelbojel (36026)
• Philippines
11 Apr 21
@Shiva49 Prior to the pandemic, there are people already wearing masks.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
10 Apr 21
What you see is what you get with me. I’m me, myself, and I and my family and friends know it. I live an honest and kind life to those who deserve it, but I’m not a pushover. If I don’t care for someone, they know it and why.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
10 Apr 21
@Shiva49 Thank you, Shiva.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
10 Apr 21
That is what confidence and self-worth are about. I can see that from your responses here.
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@innertalks (22070)
• Australia
10 Apr 21
I do not like playing roles, but sometimes, I feel that I need to, but I always feel bad when I have played some type of a role, and not been my authentic self in a situation. I would rather be my real self, rather than be playing any role, at any time. So, as a husband, I want to be my self, not a husband. As a worker, I want to be my self, not a stereotyped worker type either. I like to be myself, despite any consequences of my so doing. It has cost me a few jobs, but my Dad was the same as this, so, I am following his example, I suppose, in some ways too, not being myself there either.....or am I? How can we be sure we are being our true selves, and not being a shadow of someone else, or following our ego self instead? I suppose the test is if our conscience is acting up, or not, or if what we are doing is still being loving, kind, peaceful, and in line with our place in God's oneness, benefiting this oneness, not hindering it, in any way at all.
@innertalks (22070)
• Australia
11 Apr 21
@Shiva49 Sometimes some give and take is required, or some compromise, but not as to bring about a crossing over of the line of our principles. I will often eat my wife's cooking, even if I am not so partial to it, just because she went to the effort to cook it for my dinner. I see nothing too wrong about my doing that.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
11 Apr 21
@innertalks Of course, when love oils and is the foundation for our relationships then we are accommodating to even faults in others. Without give and take the relationships will ring hollow and flounder soon.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
10 Apr 21
Well elucidated Steve, thanks. I try to be totally sincere to my conscience as I cannot live with a wounded conscience. Otherwise, I am not only cheating myself but also distancing myself from my creator. That to me is a red flag to keep me in check and warn me that I am treading the wrong path, unchartered territory. I also like to be totally sincere in my roles as a husband, father, brother, and earlier as a son and a grandson. And not forgetting a friend - a friend in need is a friend indeed. Never like to abuse that endearing term.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
10 Apr 21
I do my best to be myself as much as I can. It helps me to live comfortably. I respect others. They have their own lives to face too just like me.
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• Germany
10 Apr 21
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
10 Apr 21
I too am like that - just being me what you see and hear is me. No putting on an act, pretenses. Still, the beauty in life is that our relationship varies at the same time. We are a child, parent, even grandparent at the same time in a family.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
11 Apr 21
The world is a stage and we are the players. We play our roles on it.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
11 Apr 21
Yes, we are not the same to everyone, especially to our family members. And depends on age too.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
11 Apr 21
I am true to myself and true to my word.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
12 Apr 21
That lightens our load a lot - why complicate matters?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 21
Like you I've always lived by 'my word is my bond' - I stick to that even when various other roles are thrust upon me.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
12 Apr 21
That is not only the right way but also eases our life here. Some make their lives too complicated.
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@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
11 Apr 21
I try my best to play myself in a different role in the world stage we live in. It is not so easy especially if I have to be honest and true to myself and the persons I am reacting with.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
12 Apr 21
While we need to be diplomatic, I try not to keep others guessing. I am direct and leave no doubts in others as to who I am and what my intentions are.
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