How many kids do you want to have and why?

United States
November 30, 2006 11:33am CST
How many kids do you want to have? What went into this decision? Of those of you who've already had kids, were they planned? I have a ten month old girl who wasn't planned, but she wasn't a total surprise either. I love her with all my heart.
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• United States
18 Dec 07
I don't want any. I'm too selfish to give up things I want or need everytime my kid needs a new pair of shoes or needs to go to the doctor's office. I'm not quitting my job to raise a child nor am I taking some 9-5 boring job. I'm not too old to have kids, KI just don't want them. If you do, fine. But I'm not weird or unwell just because it's my choice. So no, I won't be having kids. I could also never date a man with kids. I'm too selfish to ever date a man with kids. I come first in a relationship -- not a child. And I know no man could ever put me ahead of his own kid. So why bother? It'd end in disaster the first time we were out on a date and Junior called needing his daddy. I would not put up with it.
• Romania
30 Nov 06
2 boys:)
• Romania
30 Nov 06
2 boys :)