Should I respond? If so, how?
By Fae Maverick
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
Australia
April 19, 2021 10:38pm CST
Heya mylotters,
So on the 1st if April I got a message from Bones' housemate saying:
"someone sent me this on instagram what is wrong with you?"
"stop bad mouthing Bones, move on. No wonder he hates you."
The photo was of a discrepancy of me talking about an aspect of my relationship with Bones... Yes well I wasn't going to drop me having a miscarriage online before actually talking to Bones about it and it wasnt til after we broke up he was willing to pull his head out if his ass and listen to me.
The thing is unfortunately for Bones and his housemate I am well within my right to talk about all aspects of my relationship with him as publicly or privately as I want. I feel as though they are trying to shut me up which they have no right to do. She said move on and frankly talking on mylot about the sh*t that went down has helped tremendously with my moving on.
She also tags him in things I have posted on instagram that are NOT directed at Bones but he could fit. One of the things was about taking your personal problems out on your partner. Bones wasnt on my mind I just agreed with it so I wrote a caption and reposted it. She then tagged him in it. Bones hasnt reacted to anything at all which indicates he doesnt want to be involved.
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2 responses
@Yara165 (23)
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20 Apr 21
First of all, good morning ??
I think the best way to react is to to delete the message and ignore it because it only brings you bad energy.
About your relationship life, I think that you have the full right to keep it private or to publish it as long as it doesn’t include the other partner personal info, because if it includes his personal info and name he can sue you with violating his privacy and abusing his reputation.
Don’t forget my dear, that every person sees the situation from his own point of view, to you he might be wrong as well as to him .
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
20 Apr 21
It isnt like I have published his name and address etc on the internet so really I am not in the wrong. If I post screenshots from the convesations I make sure to blot out dps and names. I don't even use his screen name.
@GardenGerty (160909)
• United States
25 Apr 21
I would say not to respond. She just wants to get you to react.
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