Is 33 too old to have kids??? / myLot

April 28, 2021 3:59am CST

Good day mylotters I've been feeling a bit weird lately I'm 33 this year and I've been wondering about having kids but I'm worried that it might be too late. I live with my partner and she has a son who is great and we get along fantastic, he is turning 11 this October so I was wondering if now might be a good time to give him a little brother or sister? My partner is all for it but I'm not sure yet. Is that normal or am I just nervous over nothing? Please lend me an ear and help please guys

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@ZedSmart (19786)

• Philippines

28 Apr 21

It's not too late. You're still young. Some will even have kids even if they're already in their senior years.

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Lorne Swartz

@Lorne95 (23)

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28 Apr 21

Thanks for putting my mind at ease although most of my friends already have kids that are already in high school now but I guess I'm just a late bloomer lol. Ps I love kids by the way and I guess I wouldn't mind having a little mini me running around ????

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@ZedSmart (19786)

• Philippines

28 Apr 21

@Lorne95 That is OK. You all have different reasons and I think there's nothing wrong with that.

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Laura

@Laurakemunto (12862)

• Kenya

28 Apr 21

It depends but remember having kids when you are too old it will be bad since your kids will develop conditions unnecessary for their health

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Laura

@Laurakemunto (12862)

• Kenya

29 Apr 21

@Lorne95 yes its good to plan early that's for me. I don't know about you

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Lorne Swartz

@Lorne95 (23)

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29 Apr 21

Exactly but come to think of it I'm not 60 yet and my partner is also 33 so I think we still have some time left

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90474)

• Arvada, Colorado

29 Apr 21

It is so young.

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Alfredo Rossi

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

28 Apr 21

no my mother had me when she was in her early fifties.

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Rashna Gandhi

@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

28 Apr 21

I feel you are just nervous. I am 35 and single, just saying. You can do it if you wish. You can consult your family doc too for an opinion. Take care

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Fae Maverick

@Fa_Maverick (9487)

• Australia

28 Apr 21

There is nothing wrong with that.

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sulynsi

@sulynsi (2671)

• Canada

29 Apr 21

Age is not usually a factor for men. The ability to father a child is nothing to really worry about. That being said, there certainly are things about which a couple should think seriously, regarding the choice to bring a new person into the world. While the making of a child is easy, what about the responsibilities going forward? That's more to the point.