Introvert to Extrovert?
By Janeanehr
@rhenaniedo (7)
May 19, 2021 4:43am CST
Hi there! This question is always on my mind. At times I can be conversational but mostly this applies to anyone close to me only. And as much as possible I also want to develop how to be interactive to anyone else. I am at times even lost for words especially when I am with other people. I am a shy type of person, shall we say introvert.
Hoping I can develop it here too. Any tips from you guys would be most helpful. 

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@Prabhatsingh (3537)
• India
19 May 21
what kind of tips are you looking for?
what do you wanna develop here?
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@sjvg1976 (42007)
• Delhi, India
19 May 21
@Prabhatsingh how do I develop myself that I don't get shy. 

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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
19 May 21
I`m an introvert person too but having mylot is helpful for me to interact with people in many other countries 

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@lovebuglena (45720)
• Staten Island, New York
21 May 21
I am a bit of an introvert but sometimes can be rather chatty. How social I am depends on my mood and how comfortable I feel where I am and the people I am with. I can be with people I know well and still close off and keep to myself most of the time that day or evening. I wish it wasn't that way. If I am surrounded by people and I hardly say a word I'd rather not be there. I'd rather be home alone.
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@lovebuglena (45720)
• Staten Island, New York
21 May 21
@rhenaniedo there are probably many people who experience the same thing. Doesn’t make it easier though.
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@rhenaniedo (7)
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21 May 21
oh, i thought i am alone in this world.I am exactly like this.
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@Emasburinong (1011)
• Indonesia
19 May 21
it seems what you are going through the same as me.
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@innertalks (22383)
• Australia
21 May 21
We are what we are, and we can become what we can become.
How important is our personality type?
Should we try to be extrovert, if we are naturally shy, and introverted, instead?
Our personality matches our mindset at times, and when we are negative in mindset, or despondent, and down in the mouth, these aspects influence us to be withdrawn, and to embrace the introvert in our personality.
All personalities (all personality types) exist in each person, and can be drawn out of them, by them adopting different mindsets, or ways of thinking, about themselves too.
Be positive, just do, and stop stewing about doing, and this will get your mind active, and your personality will then follow this too.
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@Tenshidc (584)
• Philippines
19 May 21
I feel you, If I don't feel or like the person or people around me I become talk less and quiet and become intimidating, If the person that close to me I become talk less if they smarter than me feel like I can't ride with them. but in your case I think your're not totally an introvert because you choose to be interact with others and yet you still asking to improve your conversation with others.If you don't want run out of words when talking to anyone, you have to feed your mind with knowledge, more knowledge, more topic to talk about.
knowledge is power.
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@Tenshidc (584)
• Philippines
21 May 21
@rhenaniedo In my opinion, you should only interact or mingle with others if you need it, if you like it, and if you enjoy it., Just be yourself and be comfortable.
@rhenaniedo (7)
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21 May 21
yes, to be honest, this is really what I feel. I only talk more when I am with my closest friends and families. I've been trying too, there really this kind of moment that I would feel like this. i have tried to mingle with other people and sometimes I see myself with other people too who has the same personality and I also see its quite not good, that is why I am trying not to be like that.
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@cabuyogty (3312)
• Philippines
20 May 21
It's good for you to interact with people and me also
i want to interact with groups of people .
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@profree2019 (1218)
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
19 May 21
I remember that like you, he was extremely shy. When I was a child I even hid between my mother's legs, out of pity for strange people who came to visit us. Over time I understood that it was a dysfunction and I tried hard, I told myself that if I can train the body, I can also do it with the mind, and I was losing my fear and facing my reality, and now I can give a public speech. , participate in a conference, among other things. Don't worry, just face it and you will see that with time, you will be well told to shut up. LOL
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@rhenaniedo (7)
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21 May 21
this made me smile and yes so much positivity. I like this.thank you
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