My friend is serious as she is COVID positive / myLot

By Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41290)

Delhi, India

May 22, 2021 10:42pm CST

From last few I have been in touch with her over phone. She was diàgoned as covid positive around 10 days back.

She had high fever and the best thing she does is she isolated herself in her home itself so no one else in her house is infected.

She started having breathing problems as the oxygen level was going down , she was hospitalised and was on the oxygen support since last few days.

Here in India hospitals are taking cash , no insurance ,

already she had financial issues and God know how his husband is managing bills now as daily expenses of hospitalisation is high here.

Today me and one of my friend are planning to go to his house and meet her husband just to offer him some help from our side.

But I am scared should we go to her house or not as she is recently been diagnosed with covid.

Please suggest what should be done ?

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21 responses

Kayla Tsukino

@kaylachan (72663)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

23 May 21

After ten days, she's no longer contagious. However, it's up to you. You run the risk of getting any number of viruses and daiseses just by breathing every single day. Sometimes you need to decide, what's worth the risk?

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41290)

• Delhi, India

23 May 21

That's right. We have been planning to meet her husband outside her home

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relcap23

@florelway (23333)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

23 May 21

You can send to her account or.you can send to the hospital to reduce their bills.

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58472)

• Germany

23 May 21

Let them be checked again. If the result is negative. Then, you can visit but for now I don`t think it is a good idea visiting there. You can still send your help by online transfers

You have a great heart.

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41290)

• Delhi, India

23 May 21

Her test report is still positive. She is still hospitalised . She is in hospital from last 18 days and don't know till when she will be in the hospital.

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58472)

• Germany

23 May 21

@sjvg1976 Oh That`s sad. I hope and pray that she will get well soon

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prashu

@prashu228 (37521)

• India

23 May 21

Take all the necessary precautions if you are going to visit, Have a nice day

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LotusEyes

@LotusEyes (2716)

• India

23 May 21

If you want to help him with money then you can send him money online. If there is a containment area, Watchman will not allow you to visit. And you are still in touch with each other on the phone. Because you have to take care of yourself and your family before you go out

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surendra pal singh

@omsurendra10 (12)

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23 May 21

Yes this time is diificult for everybody and you will definitely find the way to help her as lot of people are helping covid 19 patient in difficult time , keep trying and be positive and yu will find the way to help her. Because your intention is true and pure. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FRIEND WITH GOOD HEALTH ????????

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41290)

• Delhi, India

23 May 21

Thanks . Today she was tested again positive. She is in the hospital from last 18 days and now 14 days are confirmed further. The hospital expenses will come app 10 lakh rupees which cannot be afforded by a middle class person.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32305)

• Malaysia

23 May 21

It's up to you. If you do go, do take precautions and sanitize well. Wear protections.

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90566)

• Arvada, Colorado

23 May 21

So sorry

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37403)

• Toccoa, Georgia

23 May 21

Go to the house, but don't go inside. Try to help them from the outside.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472251)

• Switzerland

23 May 21

I understand your desire to bring support, but please DO NOT GO! Send him money, but keep safe, he could be contaminated.

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Shiva

@Shiva49 (26809)

• Singapore

23 May 21

I think it is better to speak to them over the phone and help them in whatever way you can.

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Thelma

@thelme55 (77162)

• Germany

23 May 21

Just put the cash in the envelope and deliver it to her husband but a few meters away from him and with a mask.

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Rashna Gandhi

@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

23 May 21

You can go. Maintain a safe distance and wear mask. Your idea of helping is good or you can talk with him on phone and do online transfer too

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CarolDM

@CarolDM (203422)

• Nashville, Tennessee

23 May 21

Looks like others have given you choices.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38166)

• Philippines

24 May 21

Better not visit them since I suspect his husband might have the virus and just is asymptomatic and just a carrier. I think if you want to help them out you may drop by as quickly as you can and leave immediately. Or if there are couriers that could deliver it then do so.

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popciclecold

@popciclecold (39647)

• United States

24 May 21

See if you can send money to her in her name.

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (140438)

• Roseburg, Oregon

23 May 21

I hope your friend will be ok.

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Lucky Roo

@youfiq (2565)

• United States

24 May 21

For now, first reduce visits to his house, just increase the number of long-distance calls, we are very afraid of the spread of this virus, just assure him that when things are safe we ??will visit him in the near future

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any riza

@ladyhero (3846)

• Indonesia

24 May 21

try to contact via WA or the telephone to offer your assistance

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Urvashi Porwal

@AnitaPorwal (254)

• India

23 May 21

You should meet her husband outside their home with proper precautionary measures or else take the help of digital payments that could be a better option. Else it depends on you. Take care.

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