Love and Care become lesser

May 23, 2021 9:39am CST
Being with the person you love for so many years is not a guarantee that you will not fall out of love to him or her. Just like what I am feeling right now. We have started as friends before stepping to a much greater relationship. Due to situations that arise day by day, my love and care become lesser. As a result, there are times, I feel reluctant to care anymore with our relationship.
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
26 May 21
When starting a relationship, how do you know it's love? Great question, and I found an amazing little video that explained the difference between attraction, infatuation and love. No relationship should be build on mere attraction or infatuation, as it can quickly cool in the light of hard reality. Love, on the other hand, is different. It can weather a great deal. But even it must be nurtured and strengthened.
https://www.jw.org/en/library/videos/#en/mediaitems/TeenSocialLife/docid-502016211_1_VIDEO
@ladyhero (3846)
• Indonesia
24 May 21
it could happen, and it really affects the relationship, I sometimes feel the same way
@kaylachan (71762)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 May 21
While this does happen, that's you personally. I personally don't feel people so much fall out of love, so much as they get bored of the everyday that is life. There's not enough drama or challenges. There's a sense of security. It is what it is though.
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
24 May 21
Oh ok. I didn't knew this happens. Have a good day. Take care
@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
23 May 21
I think that's normal to human especially the married couples. Love between them start to reduce after they live together for years.
@Robinhuut (457)
• Bogor, Indonesia
24 May 21
"Love grows with habit". Indeed, if you understand the meaning, it will be understandable that love will be able to grow because it is accustomed to it. Accustomed to meeting, used to interacting, used to being together. Even though maybe at first the love hasn't grown, but because we often meet and are often together, it finally starts to grow because of this habit.
• Angeles City, Philippines
23 May 21
Just because of some situations that comes, it makes you love and care for him? I don't think that is true love. Maybe you should give your relationship a space or call it off for awhile. You have to be fair with him.