How to Unlove someone? / myLot

Philippines

May 27, 2021 12:27pm CST

Can you stop loving someone if you truly love someone?, In my opinion you can never stop loving the person you loved but you can accept undying love as a virtue instead of a burden, unloving someone is not easy, you have to be strong to be able to let go. what do you think guys? have you experience this before? you can share your thoughts regarding this topic. Photo from google-

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AmberLynn

@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)

• United States

27 May 21

Unloving someone is a painful and torturous process. It can take many years, and sometimes, in the middle of a sunny Tuesday, you think of them and your heart breaks all over again.

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AmberLynn

@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)

• United States

27 May 21

@Tenshidc I was married once, and it took several years for me to finally let go. It took several more years before I stopped thinking of him with longing.

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Tenshi

@Tenshidc (584)

• Philippines

27 May 21

@ScribbledAdNauseum that's too long, I think that's True love that wasn't easy to let go, and yet your married with him.

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Tenshi

@Tenshidc (584)

• Philippines

27 May 21

that's true it doesn't happen overnight especially if you truly love the person.

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louievill

@louievill (28851)

• Philippines

27 May 21

Time is not only a great healer in my opinion it's also a great " unlover" if we are just patient enough

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louievill

@louievill (28851)

• Philippines

28 May 21

@Tenshidc Very true. Tolerance to pain be it emotional or physical differs from one individual to the other and in this type of pain I had seen people get over it in days, months, years, decades and some retain the scar for a lifetime , it really depends on the person cause no two are the same emotionally.

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Tenshi

@Tenshidc (584)

• Philippines

28 May 21

yes you are right, but you have to support yourself through the healing process and protect your emotional well being.

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Tenshi

@Tenshidc (584)

• Philippines

29 May 21

@louievill that's true, and it also depends how deep the wounds of the person to overcome it easily.

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32305)

• Malaysia

28 May 21

Feeling is not a switch. You can't just unloved at will. The feeling will fade with time. You just need a distraction so you didn't think much about it. But of course it's easier said than done.

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Tenshi

@Tenshidc (584)

• Philippines

28 May 21

Yes you're right, it's not easy to control your emotion and it doesn't happen overnight especially if you truly love that person, it will be even harder to be rid of the love that you have for that person.

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Ken

@kanuck1 (4434)

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27 May 21

I have been hurt by a few women in my life that I loved and in time they no longer mean anything to me. I can live without them. I don't hate them but glad they can't hurt me anymore.

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Tenshi

@Tenshidc (584)

• Philippines

27 May 21

well, I think you successfully unloved them and you become a better person now.

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Ken

@kanuck1 (4434)

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27 May 21

@Tenshidc Yes, I'm happy with the way I handled things. Real love conquers all and we are happiest when we love but when someone hurts us we must protect ourselves from such people so that we can love those who deserve it. There are different degrees of love and we have the control whether to intensify or diminish the degree of love.