How do you manage to get over a break up?

usually crying helps until that first morning you wake up and your first thought isnt about them,,it will happen,i assure you,,,the crying,anger,hurt,shame,depression all have a porpose and that is to make you stronger for the next time the signs come,,you learn better how to handle the break ups because you judge people better,the way they treat you,the things they expect of you,,some of them come at a price,but you do learn which people deserve to get to you and the ones that shouldnt because they will undoubtably hurt you,do your crying,do your rocking front and back on a chair,,dont answer the door,ignore 'fish in the sea crap' do whatever gets you through and you will come throught the other side.