Inner Grinner or Outer Shouter? Which are you?

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I first heard those words when I lived near Newport Beach in southern California. There was a very funny comedy/music duo, two guys named Skiles and Henderson, who played every weekend at a great restaurant/cocktail bar called the Reuben E. Lee. It was built like and old Mississippi River boat, two stories tall and the food and entertainment were both great. I made a point of having dinner there or somewhere nearby nearly every weekend and maybe once a month ended up In the spacious cocktail lounge for a lot of laughter. Bill Skiles would ask the audience which they were. “inner grinners ,” (people who might be amused by great jokes, or the funny dialogue between the two, but only smile) or “outer shouters” someone who can’t help laughing out loud when things are really funny). I thought about this recently when my wife and I were watching some (I thought) quite funny movies and comedy sketches. I am definitely an outer shouter, and laugh out loud easily several times a day, often at myself. My wife, on the other hand, rarely laughs loudly. (I wonder if it’s because she was raised Presbyterian?) I do make her laugh sometimes with my silly comments and I am always glad to hear it.