WHY Decisions are so tough ?
@sauravshiva (130)
June 10, 2021 2:48am CST
I have found myself struggling a lot in making important decision, may be it is fear that i might make the wrong decision and it puts up a lot stress on our head sometime.
sometimes we have time limits too to make the decision and it makes it worse than the worse and in such a hypothetical situation our mind stops working,
please telll me how do tackle such conditions
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8 responses
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
13 Jun 21
That's the basic and one should do it. @sauravshiva
Most of the people do that before reaching to the point.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
10 Jun 21
It is always difficult to take a decisions. Many people including you always have apprehensions in their mind - what if their decision turns out to be wrong? What if someone feels hurt due to their decision? What if they incur any loss due to decision?
As you have not specifically mentioned what kind of decisions you find unable to take, I will reply in general.
Please remember that when you are required to take a decision and there is time limit, you must take a decision.
It is said that - "it is better to take a wrong decision, then not to take a decision". You need to follow this dictum.
No decision could 'ideally' be right or wrong. And once you take a decision - do not ever feel guilty about it or regret it because while taking a decision, you applied your wisdom and experience, and in accordance with the circumstances you took the best decision (this you should tell yourself). Profit and loss are part of life and you cannot avoid it.
All the best.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
10 Jun 21
Could you get wisdom just by praying?
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
11 Jun 21
@bestie Who will guide? I wish if prayers help in getting wisdom. I would pray all the time.
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
13 Jun 21
@sauravshiva I don't think that you have to follow the advice everytime , if you don't like the advice then you may drop it.
@sauravshiva (130)
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12 Jun 21
Sanjeev after taking advice, i get more confused and that's more pathetic condition
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@Shireen2834 (2)
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10 Jun 21
Responding to this, bcs I was also struggling to make a decision since morning but till now my mind is cleared a lil bit.
1.Give yourself some time I would say. Sometimes in that particular situation, our panicking mindset doesn't allow us to think clearly. But after sm tym, u will notice answers will be logically coming to u .
2. If u don't have time ,close your eyes take a deep breadth, & ask yourself about all the possibilities u have . This will make easy for u to cm to the final decision
@Sam_graphixer (2465)
• India
10 Jun 21
it will take time ... but you have to train your mind and forget about the fear
