How Many Years Difference is There Between You and Your Spouse or Significant Other?

United States
June 16, 2021 10:16am CST
I am just curious about this because my husband is the love of my life, and there is a 26 year age difference between us! Many people are surprised by that and sometimes when we go places, people think I am his daughter! It is not our first marriage, and we each have 3 grown children. We have been happily married for 11 years. So, how many years difference between you and your special person?
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
16 Jun 21
There are 5 years difference between my husband and I, this year we celebrate our 50th anniversary.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
Wow, that's wonderful Congratulations to you. My husband and I will never make it to that 50th anniversary, but I am grateful for the time we do have together.
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
16 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren We were both young when we got married, we will hope to celebrate some more.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@LadyDuck The fact that you have stayed together for all that time after marrying young says a lot about your commitment to each other!
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
16 Jun 21
My wife and I are six years apart. I am 48 and she is 54. We have been together 16 years and married for 14 years.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
16 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren It definitely is, although it seems more common these days. My wife's cousin was older than her husband and my sister is older than hers. A trend perhaps? lol
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• United States
16 Jun 21
Good for you. It's more unusual for the woman to be older, but I say whatever makes you happy.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Jun 21
There is only a 6 months age difference between me and my husband. I’m older because I was born in October of 88 and he was born in April of 89. Usually when people see it’s either the fact we are a biracial couple or the fact that he looks older then me and I’m younger or the nanny or something.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren yep looks can make you look older or younger. My husband looks so much younger when he doesn’t have facial hair. So he keeps facial hair on his face so he doesn’t look so young at work.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
Ha, "the nanny". That's cute. Some people just have an older or younger look to them.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@ShyBear88 Ah, that's a good idea. Do you like his facial hair? Some wives don't.
@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
16 Jun 21
3 years and it was 53 years June 8
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
17 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren Tough day, he was in a deep sleep, we couldn't wake him up even to eat but hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@BelleStarr Wow, good for you. How is your husband doing today by the way?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Jun 21
Years shouldn’t make a difference if you are happy. We have a 3 1/2 year age difference and people think I’m my husband’s daughter.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren I make sure I look young!
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@DuanneN Wow, really? Well, either you must look very young or he must look older?
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@DianneN Aw, that's a beautiful photo. You 2 make a great couple!
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@miftha (1621)
• Bekasi, Indonesia
16 Jun 21
I'm still looking for a spouse. Do you have any Suggestions?
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• United States
16 Jun 21
Well, honestly, my husband and I knew each other many years ago, and reconnected again and fell in love. And I have known a lot of people that that has happened to. So maybe think back in your life to see if there is someone you cared about at one time in your earlier life, and you broke up, or lost contact, and see what they are up to know. There is a book written about couples that this has happened to. It's called, "My Boyfriend's Back" and it was really fun to read about other couples who lost touch with someone in their past and reunited and fell in love. Good luck to you. I hope you find someone soon.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@miftha Thank you, and you as well.
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@miftha (1621)
• Bekasi, Indonesia
16 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren thanks for sugestion, have a great day. good luck to you
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
16 Jun 21
I married a man 7 years older than me when I was very young. Many decades later, I had a friend 20 years older than myself. I did not marry him nor was interested in doing so. I still consider my late husband the love of my life.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@marguicha Aw, that is very sweet. My husband now is the love of my life and I don't think I will ever remarry if he goes first.
@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Jun 21
We are only 2 months apart (but he is older ).
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@muchtosay My first husband and I were 2 weeks apart. I was older and he never let me forget it!
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
17 Jun 21
We have a difference of 4 years between us. And we are happily married for 16 years.
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• United States
17 Jun 21
@sjvg1976 That is great that you have been happily married that long. Congratulations!
@wolfgirl569 (108126)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Jun 21
17 between me and hubby. We have had that also.
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@wolfgirl569 (108126)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren I think it mostly depends on their attitude and also how they were raised.
• United States
17 Jun 21
@wolfgirl569 I think older men treat their spouse/significant other better than men my age. Of course it could just be my own personal experience but my first husband was the same age as me, and he didn't respect women very much.
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@Shiva49 (26774)
• Singapore
17 Jun 21
Five years and six months. That was about the norm in my younger days. Love matters more than anything else in a relationship. Happy for you.
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• United States
17 Jun 21
@Shiva49 That is true, and thank you!
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@NJChicaa (120122)
• United States
16 Jun 21
My ex-husband and I are the same age. His birthday is in December and then mine follows 3 months later in March.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@NJChicaa My ex and I are about the same age also. I think that's part of the reason he is my "ex."
@ladyhero (3846)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 21
my husband is a year older than me and we are like dating people, because I don't have children yet
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@ladyhero (3846)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 21
@Kouponkaren we still enjoy, even though it's been more than 3 years
• United States
17 Jun 21
@ladyhero Enjoy your time together now. It is good to build a solid base, just the 2 of you, before children come along.
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@RAOCV20 (270)
• Visakhapatnam, India
17 Jun 21
I was born 10 years earlier than my wife .
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• United States
17 Jun 21
@RAOCV20 I think that's a nice age difference. But then again, everyone is different, so whatever works!
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
16 Jun 21
6years difference between my husband and me.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Jun 21
My husband is older than me four years. I think it is a suitable gap.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
16 Jun 21
We do not have even a year of difference, only 5 months,
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• United States
16 Jun 21
My wife is older by three years. We met in October of 1984 and were married in November of the same year.
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• United States
16 Jun 21
@Vikingswest1Wow, that's amazing. And good for you that you are still together after such a quick courtship. It must be true love!
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• Philippines
17 Jun 21
4 years difference
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17 Jun 21
We are just 1 year gap.....
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