The ideal of beauty is becoming increasingly difficult to achieve.

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I must say that I am not a chubby girl. I am maybe short, but with a proper BMI. When I was little I used to be a gymnast. I was insanely underweight and that's how I know myself half my life. At the age of 14-15, I started to grow up, to be a woman. But I did not like the way it looked. Because I exercised my arms were always muscular and not as thin as those girls my age. my boyfriend I had at the time, remarked to me that my hands were fat (!!!) and till this day the part of my body that I love the least is my arms. That's where the problems with my body started. I wanted to have space between my thighs but my pelvis structure does not allow it. It cannot be changed. I would take pictures in weird poses to make it look like I have. My sister and I would check who has more space between the thighs, who has smaller breasts, who has smaller hips. It was disgusting. Today, they all need a wide pelvis, a slim waist, a flat stomach with some line in the middle ... it's an irrational race for a body that can not be achieved. because you got a body, your body, and it's perfect as it is.