Energy giver or energy sucker

@dpk262006 (58676)

Delhi, India

July 7, 2021 5:27am CST

I was reading an article. It was mentioned there that there are two types of people, one is 'energy giver' and second one is 'energy sucker'. Meaning thereby if you come in contact with the first category of people, you will feel good, as they encourage and motivate you to do something and you feel charged. If you come in contact with second category of people, you feel that someone has sucked your energy and you feel frustrated and depleted. In which category do you feel that you fall ? And would you like to be with a person who is 'energy giver' or 'energy sucker'?

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

7 Jul 21

There is a group of Indians who might call me an energy giver on myLot.

I've infected them with the myLot crazy virus and they are busy having fun and enjoying themselves on different discussions. I join them as often as I can. They are all a lot of fun.

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@prinzcy (32305)

• Malaysia

8 Jul 21

@CuriousGab 10000mAh?

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@CuriousGab (3292)

• India

8 Jul 21

@DaddyEvil You are full power bank of energy

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@CuriousGab (3292)

• India

8 Jul 21

@prinzcy Can't be measured

Numbers can't describe right DE?

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@prinzcy (32305)

• Malaysia

8 Jul 21

I think I know but I don't know how others view me. It might be different from what I thought.

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@prinzcy (32305)

• Malaysia

8 Jul 21

@DaddyEvil thank you, I already know about you. But not of others. Well, it's okay.

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

8 Jul 21

@prinzcy You're welcome.

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

8 Jul 21

I told you how I view you. Don't you believe me?

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@prashu228 (37524)

• India

7 Jul 21

I guess am neutral..

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@prashu228 (37524)

• India

8 Jul 21

@DaddyEvil really.. this is something new about me..I never knew all these years..

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

8 Jul 21

Why neutral? When I talk with you I'm enjoying myself... That should mean you're an energy giver...

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

8 Jul 21

@prashu228 Then you've been missing out on part of your appeal... I see people talking with you on myLot all the time. (People wouldn't talk with you much if you weren't an energy giver.) I just had nothing to say I thought you'd be interested in hearing. (You seem dignified and I'm... not. *shrug*)

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@meowch (2220)

• United States

7 Jul 21

Someone said that people feel energized and happy because of my presence. It's like I'm a ray of sunshine.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

It is nice to hear that you work as 'energy giver' to others and you do not shy away from motivating and helping others.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

10 Jul 21

@meowch It is really great on your part that you believe in helping others and try your best to motivate them. Yes, you are right that more good we do, more blessings are likely to come our way.

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@meowch (2220)

• United States

8 Jul 21

@dpk262006 I motivate others and help them as much as I could. The more good you do more blessings comes.

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@Butterfingers (66583)

• India

7 Jul 21

Of course energy giver

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

It is good that you would like to be with a person who is 'energy giver' but if an 'energy sucker' comes and sit with you and start talking to you, what will you do?

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@Butterfingers (66583)

• India

8 Jul 21

@dpk262006 I experience those people in day to day life but try to stay calm at that time

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

@Butterfingers It means that you try your best not to allow them to suck your energy.

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@Anqaya (3033)

• United States

7 Jul 21

Energy giver.

But sometimes when I get frustrated or angry, I may fall into the 2nd category. And those people who don't know me personally, and who gets to see only my 2nd side, will definitely say I'm an energy sucker.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

13 Jul 21

It is good to hear that you consider yourself as energy giver. We all have mood swings and it is alright when sometimes you feel angry or frustrated and you turn like an energy sucker. I understand that phase does not last long and you are back to normal.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

14 Jul 21

@Anqaya Have nice day!

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@Anqaya (3033)

• United States

13 Jul 21

@dpk262006 Yes you're right.

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@marlina (154131)

• Canada

7 Jul 21

'energy giver' for sure

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

It is nice to hear that you motivate others and you are a energy giver to others.

@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

16 Jul 21

@dpk262006 I try to be very encouraging with people. I hate those that want to or try to suck the life out of you.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

20 Jul 21

It is commendable on your part

that you love to encourage others, whosoever comes into contact with you. Yeah, we do not like those, who are energy suckers.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

23 Jul 21

@Hannihar Even though we do not like energy suckers but sometimes we are forced to face them due to circumstances.

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@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

20 Jul 21

@dpk262006 No, I believe lots do not like energy suckers.

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@arunima25 (87819)

• Bangalore, India

12 Jul 21

People consider me a good counselor. So I guess I would fall to the energy giver category. I am a positive and happy person. But when I am going through some hormonal cycle issues, I can be an energy sucker. But that phase is short-lived.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

13 Jul 21

Yes, I could vouch for those who consider you as energy giver

. I am sure when they need your help and advice/ support they approach you with a hope that you will become a kind of healer for them.

. As regards hormonal cycle issues, those are temporary and you can't help much about it.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

15 Jul 21

@arunima25 I understand that I am energy giver for my colleagues/subordinates and friends and they love to talk to me and share their problems with me. I am a patient listener.

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@arunima25 (87819)

• Bangalore, India

14 Jul 21

@dpk262006 Thank you. I would agree that I am energy giver.

How about you? How do you consider yourself?

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@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

7 Jul 21

First category for both questions. I stay away from negative people

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

9 Jul 21

It is great to hear that you stay away from negative people. Have a nice day.

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@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

9 Jul 21

@dpk262006 Thanks dear. Same to you

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@Sojourn (13837)

• India

7 Jul 21

Maybe I am energy neutral, because I cannot remember influencing anyone with motivation and uplifting thoughts, nor with toxic or excessive negative thoughts.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

I do not think that you could be energy neutral. As per your profile your age is 31. Whenever you meet a teenager or a younger guy and if he asks for your advice on any issue (which he does not know) do not you advice him or make him understand the concept?

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

10 Jul 21

@Sojourn On the surface it looks that he ignores you but when he is introspecting he might agree with your views. You advice for his benefit not for anything else.

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@Sojourn (13837)

• India

8 Jul 21

@dpk262006 Actually my brother is at 23 now, and whenever I try to advice him he just ignores it

. So I based my observation on that.

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@CuriousGab (3292)

• India

8 Jul 21

@dpk262006 "And would you like to be with a person who is 'energy giver' or 'energy sucker'?" --- Ofcourse everyone wants to be in company of energy giver

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

9 Jul 21

I hope you gets included in 'everyone' and you like to be with those who are energy giver.

@FaruMesh (3508)

• India

7 Jul 21

Have you seen any energy giver and "sucker" in myLot

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

@FaruMesh - My discussion is about real life not about myLot. To answer your question, all mylotters here are 'energy giver' because they do not shy away from conveying their thoughts/views/advice and motivate others.

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

8 Jul 21

Yes, I've seen both types.

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@CuriousGab (3292)

• India

8 Jul 21

@FaruMesh And you fall in third category,I guess

Which is yet to be discovered

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@ThatDisha (4010)

• India

7 Jul 21

I think I am energy give kin of person as people say i make them feel motivated.. don't know though:)

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

8 Jul 21

It is nice to hear that you work as 'energy giver' to others and you do not shy away from motivating and helping others.

. Everyone knows about herself/himself, therefore it is not appropriate to say that you do not know about yourself.

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@ThatDisha (4010)

• India

8 Jul 21

@dpk262006 yes sir:)

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@much2say (55669)

• Los Angeles, California

9 Jul 21

I like to think I'm the energy giver. I have known plenty of energy "vampiers", and I hope I am not seen as one of those.

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@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

10 Jul 21

I am sure that you are energy giver and you motivate and support others, if they need your help/advice.

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