i need some space!

Kenya
July 14, 2021 8:52am CST
Hey guys, its common in relationships for someone to say to their partner.' I need some space'. Often its misinterpreted and mostly their better halves end up withdrawing their attention and then it goes like, '' i said i need my space but u don't give me any attention''. It becomes rather confusing at times. So what does it literally mean when your partner tells you,'' i need some space''? I've had a problem giving space and attention at the same time in my past relationships and it never worked so well.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
15 Jul 21
For me it means I should not poke my nose into her bussiness.
Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
15 Jul 21
@Orlando1 yes she is but sometimes it happens with everyone of us
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Orlando1
@Orlando1 (30)
• Kenya
15 Jul 21
@sjvg1976 yeah and it wrecks things up i'm a victim of that
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Orlando1
@Orlando1 (30)
• Kenya
15 Jul 21
@sanjeev isn't she your partner in everything?
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Marlina
@marlina (154130)
• Canada
14 Jul 21
You don't do both at the same time!
Orlando1
@Orlando1 (30)
• Kenya
15 Jul 21
@Marlina its confusing what should be done first?
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Marlina
@marlina (154130)
• Canada
15 Jul 21
@Orlando1 , I think attention first
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Sam Charles
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
22 Jul 21
Ohh my friend..... Even I didn't understand the meaning till now, they need space and if we try to then they would say we are paying attention anymore. This is some times so confusing and irritating as well. If you find some answers from fellow mylotters, then even I would love to read it