A bad day

@S4mmyboy (3266)
Mumbai, India
July 18, 2021 6:47am CST
Yesterday was a very bad day for me. Few days back I applied for reissue of my passport which expired few months back. In our country the cops come for verification to check if the address is genuine. I mentioned my parents address since all my legal documents carry my parents house address. The trouble started when my elder brother's son opened the door for the cops and told them I don't stay over there anymore. So when I visited the police station as asked by the cops, they told me that since I don't stay at the mentioned address I either have to bribe them or wait for another few more months to get all my documents in place and reapply. Am now in a situation. Did you ever face such situations in your life that you had to bribe, even after being perfect with your paperwork. These instances would happen only in the Asian continent
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul 21
Bribery is indeed very common in Asia but I would never bribe anyone. Just because it could be used against me. I always want to follow the rules as much as I can.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
I try my best to get the things done at its own pace. I wont bribe. But there are times that there is no option left with you and we are forced to.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I understand. When do you need your passport actually?
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@flapiz actually it got expired in January this year, but due to lockdown I wasn't able to apply. This would be my 3rd passport. I never bribed for my earlier 2 passports. But this time the cop stationed at our place is too corrupted. I am planning to look for jobs abroad, so for that I need to have my passport ready
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@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
18 Jul 21
This issue are most common at least in our country. Yes you are right, you have to bribe them or make your documents in place before you re apply. Choice is always yours
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
Actually all my documents are correct there is nothing illegal that I have produced. Since my parents passed away I stay separately as my elder brother family stay in that house. Legally even I have the same rights as my brother. And all my legal documents carry the same address, but still the cops want me to bribe them. Even if I reapply I would have to bribe them, though the amount may be a little less. In our country, all the government servants are crooked, even after getting hefty package as salary and bonus they are greedy for bribe. The shameless cop is asking me to either pay 2000/- (almost $28) as bribe or prove yourself that would take atleast 6 months
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@FaruMesh exactly..... When will India change
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@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I'm really sorry to hear that, I was not saying you did anything wrong. It's the problem of our system. Bribing everywhere even if the documents are up to date we have to bribe officers.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
19 Jul 21
Sorry to hear about your case. It is quite common here in India to give your family address as your permanent address while you stay somewhere else. I too have my family residence address on all my documents while I stay somewhere else. You have to convince the police about it.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I understand. That is the state of affairs we are in.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
Yes I guess even he might have understood that., but still they are bent upon paying under the table. He is straight away sort of threatening, if I write it in the report you will be struck for another 6months
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
@msdivkar very sad... I don't see a bright future if things continue the same. But many things have changed for the better. Hope one day we will be bribe free India
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
18 Jul 21
Actually I do not face with such issues before. If we need to renew our passport, we will just need to send our application and payment online.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
18 Jul 21
Ah so what are you going to do with it? Are you going to give a bribe to the cops?
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@id_peace now he asked me to come on Monday. I have to bribe them if I want my passport. No matter even if the documents are correct. The cops stationed this time seems to be very corrupted, I never had this experience before, as this will be my 3rd passport
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
Yes it's the same process here as well. I applied online and paid the money as well. But the cops visit is part of the procedure. No matter if your applying for a reissue, the cops visit is mandatory.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
23 Jul 21
I've never had to bribe anyone for anything. If you get caught asking for or giving bribes, you can go to jail here. I'm sorry that happened. I think I'd be very upset with that nephew and would have a talk with my older brother about it. Surely your nephew, if allowed to answer the door, understands how things work there.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
23 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I'm really sorry that happened. Yeah, apologizing after the fact doesn't do any good. Your brother should have given you back the money you had to pay as a bribe.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
23 Jul 21
@DaddyEvil he said he will, but I don't know when...I can't force him, as he is elder to me
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
23 Jul 21
@DaddyEvil...I was upset with my brother, because I already informed him of the passport renewal, but still he didn't bothered to speak to his son. My nephew later apologized for his mistake, but it wasn't of any use. I finally had to settle this whole issue for $40. I paid only $20 as fees for reissue of my passport, and paid an extra $40 as bribe.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
19 Jul 21
Did your passport expire three years back? For renewal of passport a few months before expiry and within three years of expiry, things are quite simple. We just got our husband's renewed and it was effortless. All could be done online and just a day visit to passport Seva Kendra. Police verification is needed for a new one or one that has expired for more than three years.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy Oh! That sounds strange as we got no police verification. Anyway, it is your choice to pay the bribe or not.
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
@arunima25 this would be my 3 rd passport... Second as renewal, but the process remains the same as if you are applying for a new one. The only difference is reissue passports arrive in 12-15 days while the new ones takes 25-35 days
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
My passport expired last January... So just 5months back.... Here police verification is compulsory even for a reissue. This is just these corrupted cops who do it on purpose for money
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 21
The cop asked for bribe? That's crazy!
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy can't you report him? How can he ask for a bribe? That's really unethical.
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
It's a shameful thing, but that's how things work
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
@prinzcy you know what......the cops themselves bribe their chiefs to get posting at prime places where they would get good money as bribe . You may find this strange, but that's how it works. All mafia
@vandana7 (100282)
• India
28 Jul 21
There must be a good reason god did that...perhaps ..the plane you might have taken would be hijacked. So delay means...you are in god's good books...AS YET.
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@vandana7 (100282)
• India
28 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy The problem with hijacking is... the toilets are not clean.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
28 Jul 21
Well... May be.... Everything for the best......
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
28 Jul 21
@vandana7 hahahah
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
18 Jul 21
This is one of the process which is difficult. It happened once with me too when they come I was not at home so had to go to the police station. And had to go there fo 3-4 times but could not find that cop and finally gave up and could not be able to get the passport made.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy you have to bribe them otherwise you won't be able to get through the verification process
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
Yes they are aware of the situation we would face, so they are very much confident of the bribe. Am sorry that you couldn't get your passport done because of such crooked corrupted people.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@sjvg1976 yes there is no option left
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
18 Jul 21
such a bad situation ...what are you going to do now? do your family members know any one there in the local place to get the work done? you can try that way so that work will be done..
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy i see..hope there will be some way..
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@prashu228 hope so
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
As the local saying goes, jewellers rob of the gold of their own relatives, similarly the cops. No matter what....you have to bribe. Don't have any such contacts to get things done.
@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 21
I had no idea renewing your passport could be such a hassle there. If it happened here and the case is reported, those officers would be in a really big trouble.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy That must be really frustrating.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
20 Jul 21
@cahaya1983 yes it is indeed
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@cahaya1983..we can also trap them, but the chances are minimal and we end getting our passport delayed for a more longer time.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy That is not a good thing and why didn't he say that your stuff was there even though you do not live there. I hate when people answer for us and screw things up. I have a sister that we do not speak because she screwed me over very badly and when I did not need to deal with her told her to leave me alone because she was so nasty to me. Things happen everywhere.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I am sorry. That is terrible that he made trouble for you. Does he make trouble for you all the time?
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
Yes he screwed up the whole process just by saying that I don't stay anymore. Now the cops are asking bribe upfront. And they are not going to settle for less than $28-40
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
@Hannihar nah...he never does, but I just don't know why he said like that. That was his first interaction with a someone in uniform.
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19 Jul 21
Why would your brother say that you don't stay in the same location.. I think you're not gonna stay very long on your paren'ts house so why does he want that.. Now you are stuck in a difficult situation
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19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I hope all will be well for you... Praying for the good thing for you
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
@Hanbinandaeyo thank you very much
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
Yes now am in a situation
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@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
18 Jul 21
Itsn't new in here. Even my dad also did it. He bribe police
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@Andini Really a sad thing
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@Andini yes I understand
@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy but its hard situation. he need to on time for do his work. So this way gave him way for finish problem quickly
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@xstitcher (32467)
• Petaluma, California
14 Aug 21
I don't bribe people. As far as my day, yesterday went better than today.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
14 Aug 21
@xstitcher yes I understand. It happens in our continent.... Glad that you had a good day yesterday
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@Juliaacv (51193)
• Canada
18 Jul 21
I haven't heard of anyone resorting to bribery here. I hope that you are able to get your paperwork in place in time.
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@Juliaacv (51193)
• Canada
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy I am not saying that it does not happen here, but I have not experienced it.
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@Juliaacv but still.... People are much better in the West than the one in Asia
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@Juliaacv I know people in the West have manners. Feeling ashamed of myself to tell you that most of my country government servants are corrupted
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Jul 21
Bribery is illegal here in the US, but much worse for the police if they try to bribe! Hope things work out for you. That’s awful!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy Curse away!
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
@DianneN yes...I can't do much about such corrupted people. I can only curse them.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
19 Jul 21
Bribery is prevalent every where you have to be upright and not pay it. Recently the bank officials were delaying my family pension even after submitting the proper papers with the expectation of money. I informed the reserve bank and the human rights commission and got my pension.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
20 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy Yes I can say God helped me .
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
Lucky you. But there are some places where there is no option left.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Jul 21
That behavior would be illegal here. Sorry you are going through this.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
18 Jul 21
Yes, the new cop stationed here is too corrupt. His behavior was rude as well when I went to meet him
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
19 Jul 21
Bribery is a crime why don't you report it to the higher authority I know it is hard for common people to fight for their rights what i am saying is you do not have to file a case against them just report this case to some concerned authority i.e anonymously, online
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
19 Jul 21
Hmmm, I have to do that
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
19 Jul 21
@S4mmyboy yes please do that
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