Sometimes we are too hard

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Its 2am and I find myself awake with thoughts about past situations. I feel that I could have been more understanding. However, what I knew and understood then, to what I know now are really different.. We are hard on other people, and we don't think about what that person has or is going through. Sometimes because we are having a crappy day, we take it out on everyone around us, which isn't fair... We are selfish when we do that because the way we react to something can either make someone's entire day or week, OR it can break it into a thousand peices... We tend to snap very quickly, or jump to our own conclusions, and the situations we are in or have been in could go/or have gone in a completely different direction and have a completely different outcome. Does that make sense?.. we need to start being a little bit more aware of how our actions affect those around us... The change begins with us, the more we become better, the better the people around us become as we mirror those around us and the more time we spend with someone, the more we start to mimic them. My parents always used to say, "You are the company you keep".. never understood it properly until i went through something, and lost everything because of who I became, and who "I CHOSE" to surround myself with. It costs nothing to be kind... Everything comes down to CHOICE, don't ever forget that. xxx