Because I'm an introvert, lol / myLot

United States

July 30, 2021 9:37pm CST

No, the reason is simple, I don't trust people easily because every time I believe and tell stories about my problems, they usually retell it to the people around our circle (inner circle). Yes, at first I thought it was on purpose. Eh, it turns out that it wasn't just my story that he shared, it turned out that the stories of other friends also became his consumption material in opening the topic of backbiting chats and after being lightly confirmed he said he slipped, you know, I just jumped right away, it's not really that slip your character is like that. So I never confide in them because I know the habit of this friendship, so you can say friends are toxic. Luckily, little by little I drifted away from that bad friendship

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Irish Joy Ramos

@Rishiemee (65)

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31 Jul 21

I'm an extrovert and I have a very close friend that is an introvert. She's very much like you, afraid to trust people. But to every friendship, respect and care are two of the most factors a relationship can last. Regardless of being an introvert or not, if a friend backbites you to the other people then maybe he's just not a friend. You did a good thing, we should let go of the people who doesn't respect you.

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Lucky Roo

@youfiq (2565)

• United States

31 Jul 21

You are right, I really appreciate people who can respect us well, I try to stay away from people who look down on me On the one hand, I definitely can't please everyone I just want to be myself

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Irish Joy Ramos

@Rishiemee (65)

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31 Jul 21

@youfiq That's true. When you're with the right people, you can be just yourself freely. :)

rsa101

@rsa101 (38189)

• Philippines

31 Jul 21

I guess most of us here are introverts. I think we just prefer to be left alone than mingle and socialize with everyone else.

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Lucky Roo

@youfiq (2565)

• United States

31 Jul 21

Yeah,because from solitude often arises a sense of comfort and security, we are not easily hurt

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38189)

• Philippines

2 Aug 21

@youfiq And we can recharge ourselves better when left alone than mingle with many.

prashu

@prashu228 (37520)

• India

31 Jul 21

When you experience it already..why are you telling them about your problems... it's better not too

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George B Vieto

@Deepizzaguy (106173)

• Lake Charles, Louisiana

31 Jul 21

The same here since people will misunderstand what I am saying by saying that I am a "whiner." So I keep quiet.

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Yumeko

@aureategloom (11055)

• Bosnia And Herzegovina

31 Jul 21

it's sad that you had such experience, but i'm sure not everyone would do that. still, i think that we should keep some things for ourselves.

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Lucky Roo

@youfiq (2565)

• United States

31 Jul 21

sometimes i think silence is golden, instead of us revealing many things to the world but they become toxic to us

Mr.Yang

@jefferson126 (3362)

• Shenzhen, China

31 Jul 21

I was intervort as well,seldom speak my personal things out.I knew people around me,once they knew my secrets,will spread it over my circle of life.today i am not credulous any more,keeping secret inside is safe.sometimes,i was intervorted in their eyes.

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Lucky Roo

@youfiq (2565)

• United States

31 Jul 21

You're right, it's safer to keep it to yourself

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (91565)

• Arvada, Colorado

1 Aug 21

I am glad you got rid of bad friends..I did too

Shiva

@Shiva49 (26893)

• Singapore

31 Jul 21

I don't confide my innermost fears with anyone but just feelers to elicit suggestions. Human nature is to gossip but there are a few genuine people around who are true friends and can be trusted.

relcap23

@florelway (23355)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

31 Jul 21

You only need to be selective in your friends. Not all people are kiss and tell.

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