We're all the same

@sallypup (61561)
Centralia, Washington
August 4, 2021 10:13pm CST
As you age your soul and mind tend to wander home. My Mom was typical. She wandered into dementia and sometimes wandered out again. She'd talk about her brother. The year he broke his leg in a skiing accident and was quite ill- lost the leg cause of the lack of knowledge in those days. She ended up sleeping in the dark attic room, her downstairs room easiest for her ailing brother to sleep in. The only way to get into that attic was via pull down set of stairs. The only light a cord from a light bulb- she did not like running over to that string. Pretty scary for a small girl. My soul returns to a small farm as I age. I walk the twenty acres in my mind, the woods path, the swamp and the morel mushrooms that we picked and put into bread bags. My Dad and his brother Dan logged the woods with draft horses is the story handed down to me. Funny about the tricks of the mind. Due to family dramas I also spent childhood years in Minnesota. It was there, in Saint Paul and me at the time quite troubled, that I ran into the teacher who set me onto the path of writing. My hours of wandering alleys instead of sitting dumbly behind a school desk! And yet my heart rarely returns there enough for a piece of writing to embrace. Where do you return to in your dreams? Desert island? Banana plantation? Mountain cabin? Inner city apartment that has a fire escape big enough for plants to sit on?
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 21
Different places, but one that is always clear in my mind was my late grandfather's house where I spent most of my childhood years.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Aug 21
@cahaya It sounds like your grandfather's house was a comforting place for you.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 21
@sallypup It was and actually still is. We still hold family reunions and gatherings there (pre-pandemic at least) so it's a very special place for me and my cousins.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Aug 21
@cahaya1983 That sounds wonderful. I'm happy for you and your loved ones.
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
7 Aug 21
Alleyways..must have been quite the shock than the farmland you roamed..the trauma I return to our little childhood home
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
7 Aug 21
@RebeccasFarm Interesting and astute comment. Thanks for something to think about.
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• Arvada, Colorado
7 Aug 21
@sallypup Oh yes Lenore that culture shock can be devastating to a child..my poor son suffered it so when he was a kid so sad
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
7 Aug 21
@RebeccasFarm You sound much more understanding and nurturing than the adults that I knew when I was a kid.
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
5 Aug 21
Sometimes in the morning, just before I am fully awake, just before i open my eyes, I am in my childhood bedroom and fully convinced that when I open my eyes that I will see familiar objects, that the scene outside my window will be the scene outside my childhood bedroom window.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Aug 21
@Rollo1 That sounds peaceful and sweet.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
6 Aug 21
I often return to summers spent with my mother's family at the farm in Cap St Ignace, Quebec. I love that place and the peaceful times there. Picking wild berries in the woods, riding in the hay wagon, jumping into the hay in the hayloft. Playing with my little friends who didn't speak English!! Those were very special times.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
6 Aug 21
@sallypup I wonder, the world is such a different place today.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
6 Aug 21
@BelleStarr I agree and I worry about that. Even here on my little three acres a kid could have fun. I've been out on the back part of this hilly place at night and felt quite removed from the house. If I could get down on the ground for camping I'd think about spending a summer night out there.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
6 Aug 21
@BelleStarr Special times like that would stick like glue for sure. I hope there are still kids running crazy in woods and having old fashioned fun.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
5 Aug 21
@sallypup I return to spending time with my grandfather when I was growing up. I also grew up in Minnesota but in Minneapolis and not St. Paul. When I was growing up the Jewish community was small but a good one and when I grew up it changed so much that I did not enjoy it. It was so different that it was no longer fun. People were very snobby and wanted to be like another place.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Aug 21
@Hannihar Interesting how you and I share a little in our histories- I grew up in South Minneapolis and also Saint Paul. Yes, the cities are different now. My Mother talked about one of her first jobs- she cleaned for a Jewish family. She talked about the particular dishes that she washed.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
6 Aug 21
@Hannihar That description is what my Mom told me. Have you read the author Chaim Potok? I think I spelled his name correctly. Intense but wonderful books.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
5 Aug 21
@sallypup It sounds like this family kept separate dishes. I also have separate dishes. I have one side for milk dishes and the other side for meat dishes and at Passover I have dishes for Passover. I grew up on the North side and there were Jewish kids and non-Jewish kids. There were riots in 1968 and the Jews left the city and moved to the suburbs. I hated the suburbs so when could afford to I moved out and rented an apartment I think in the city.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
5 Aug 21
I often think about family memories. After losing everyone, that is all I have left. I get stuck in the past often and have to pull myself back to the here and now.
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Aug 21
@CarolDM I'm sorry for your heavy losses. My heart goes out to you.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
5 Aug 21
@sallypup Thanks. I try to remind everyone to never take anyone for granted.
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@rebelann (112959)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Aug 21
I don't have anywhere I'd want to be other than the home I have now.
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Aug 21
I usually just fall asleep and do not dream.
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@wolfgirl569 (107859)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Aug 21
I dont dream a lot.
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@LindaOHio (181321)
• United States
5 Aug 21
Two places. Most often I visit the 60s and sometimes the 70s. Other times I think about the Florida Keys.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
5 Aug 21
Your post is kind of overwhelming!!! In my dreams I am always into woods in mountains wandering....
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@sallypup (61561)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Aug 21
@Aansh13 Sorry about that. I guess I got going and couldn't quit. I like your dreams.
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