Do you believe love can happen twice?
By Disha Singh
@ThatDisha (4010)
India
August 5, 2021 10:46am CST
I was talking to one of my fellow classmates from my coaching institute and got to know that two of our coaching institute teachers tied a knot with each other.
The lady is a widowed women in her 30's she have a son elder than me by 2 3 years and the man was bachelor man in his 30's slightly younger than the female.
In India, getting married at such an age that to again is a big step especially if you are a widow and if a women is getting hitched to a younger man it is considered as a big no no for the society.
Of course, i am happy for the two and wishes best for them but still i am thinking is it that easy for someone to forget your old love and get someone new?
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17 responses
@DaddyEvil (137636)
• United States
6 Aug 21
Yes, I do...
Humans have an unlimited capacity for love/caring/respect. The more people in your life you care about, the more the love stretches and encompasses them.
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@DaddyEvil (137636)
• United States
6 Aug 21
@ThatDisha 
You don't think I'm right?
You don't think I'm right?5 people like this
@ankurdini (1798)
•
6 Aug 21
@DaddyEvil i think you right...so in past time you have many girlfriend na
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
5 Aug 21
It will be hot news for sometime ..then nobody bothers..
If the man and the woman doesn't have any problem then nobody should..
yes ofcourse Love can happen as many number of times as it can ..
so many divorcees are getting hooked again ...then why not a widow...
Happy married life to the couple..
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
8 Aug 21
In India such marriages are not respected by the society . It's sad why people don't like such marriages. I am happy for the couple because it not easy to take a step against the society but they took. Hope they have a happy life together.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
8 Aug 21
yes, it's not easy to take such a bold move, unfortunately they both lost their job
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
8 Aug 21
@sjvg1976 since it is a school and teachers dating and getting married would leave a bad impact on the students and their parents. Also it is a new school so it's reputation is important too
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 21
Well it’s not forgetting you old loves. You have to think about it does the other person once they are gone want you to be happy? Do they really want you to cry over them forever or be able to move on and find someone to fill the spot. It’s not taking over that love that you had for there other person.
Because love is endless you can always creat more and the love you have for another person will never be the same as the love for the next person.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
5 Aug 21
Very true!
Thank you for such wise answer i will surely represent your point infront of others who are judging the couple
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@Koningjoy (181)
• Imphal, India
5 Aug 21
@ThatDisha not forgetting that, "Man is a social being".
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@vandana7 (100612)
• India
12 Jan 22
Unless evil ones like me shake up the society, things not gonna change. Kudos to the lady. I would be scared if she had a daughter though instead of son. Then finding a match for the girl would be tougher, and the society would tell her that her mother is bad, and she could end up leaning on wrong shoulders, and left with regrets. Gossip mongers are usually women. So kinda, boys are sort of insulated TO AN EXTENT.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 22
@vandana7 That is the sad truth. Women are stigmatised - and often it is other women who gossip and spread evil rumours. You would think women would support each other, but no, this is partly why their situation is so bad. If they worked together things would change immediately!
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
12 Jan 22
True it is
We face stigma, social prejudices and what not
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@Andini (3211)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 21
@ThatDisha im expect a longer than it actually. But thats ok. Take care dear
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
7 Aug 21
@Andini sorry
I don't know how to respond to such discussion as everyone have their own point of view
I don't know how to respond to such discussion as everyone have their own point of view2 people like this
@snowy22315 (182193)
• United States
5 Aug 21
I don't think you ever forget your old love, you just move on. I am glad they found each other.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
6 Aug 21
True, people never forget their love they just move on
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@TerribleMan (579)
• India
6 Aug 21
Yes. I feel love can happen twice. A couple may break up due to certain reasons. After some time, they may meet again and be able to appreciate the good qualities in each other.
No person remains the same. As time passes, we grow in wisdom and maturity. Even the pain and challenges that we face in our life gives us a lot of strength and wisdom.
Just because we do not like each other now, it does not mean we will dislike each other after ten years also because both of us will be chnaged persons by then.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
11 Aug 21
Is it true? can you do true love with multiple people?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Aug 21
@ThatDisha at least we know despite single. I had a foreigner ex bf he told me that me and he had no love chemistry. I said of course because we are not meant to be 
. I had a foreigner ex bf he told me that me and he had no love chemistry. I said of course because we are not meant to be 2 people like this
@sathviksouvik (19689)
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12 Jan 22
it is individual satisfaction. If the man and woman are happy society has nothing to say
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@aureategloom (11404)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
5 Aug 21
i believe it's possible for love to happen twice - maybe it won't be the same kind of love, but i think it's possible.
also, i think that age doesn't matter that much, because maturity isn't age number, but a mindset. at least that's how i look at it.
also, if you lose your partner, you should be capable to meet someone new and even like the person, you're not supposed to be grieving your whole life, it's not healthy.
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@aureategloom (11404)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
5 Aug 21
@ThatDisha i was hoping for a longer response, but okay 
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
6 Aug 21
@aureategloom sorry
i read your response but was in a hurry so couldn't respond accordingly
i read your response but was in a hurry so couldn't respond accordingly1 person likes this
@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
5 Aug 21
Since she was window and younger too she must have required someone to share the burden of life and its not easy to spend life alone
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
5 Aug 21
Yes, we all knew about their affair since long.
Once my then boyfriend said he doesn't like it that way and i told him the same reason that she have a long life and living it alone would be difficult and if they love each other then why shouldn't they accompany each other for the rest of their lives
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
7 Aug 21
Yes I do but for me it is very foolish
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 22
It is not necessary to forget your old love. If you have loved someone and shared your life with them you will never forget. But still one must not live in the past. Life starts again every minute and you have no choice but to move forward. Why deny yourself the chance of a happy partnership again if the opportunity presents itself?
@Koningjoy (181)
• Imphal, India
5 Aug 21
It will be a talk of the town for sometime. Then people will get fade up and mind their own business.
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