Which one do you prefer? Directly having kids after married or wait for 1-2 to prepare the baby?

Aaaa thank you for sharing, however, the baby is still a surprise right hahaha

@Miladmalik Hahaha that's right, my daughter is 11 years old now.

@asianlady wah, she must be beautiful :D

Wahaha you think that baby is more like a doll, well, I am curious about what do you do after having a kid?

There must be another activity than make a baby, right?

@Miladmalik Well, hubs and I wanted to wait until we - he mainly, was settled in his career.We saved up for a house, then had kids once we moved in. People do what they want, but we wanted to give our children a good life, camp, music lessons, sports, vacations, and a great education. Those were our priorities. Now our kids are grown and successful.

Meaning that we need to prepare every single thing before having kid?

@DianneN I was wondering your and your husband reaction, when people asked "why don't you postponed in having a kid? " Did you respond it using this answer?

You know what in my country, there is a region that the medical stuffs order us to not have a baby during pandemic, LoL

@Miladmalik yes you are now right

Yep, because there must be an agreement and no one get zero while someone get one poin, right?

At least we prepare a proper place for the baby grow up :D

@Miladmalik don't shy to tell it. I don't think you Will have this thought without plan for your marriage ahhaha. It's ok you can have this thought. But i think 1st must to have a commitment between husband and wife about this things. Get a decision that balance of both want then it's good deal for have kids direct or wait a years. But i think whenever God give us a kids then we can Just accept it And love kids

No, haha I only ask about what people think about those two options.

I see, it is related to menopause? and the dangerous things if a woman gives birth in 40's?