My Poor Boyfriend

@flapiz (23151)
United Kingdom
September 10, 2021 7:23pm CST
My boyfriend is having bouts of cough and cold these days and I feel so bad not being there to take care of him. He's struggling and I could hear and see it over video. I really want to be there for him in times like these but instead I'm taking care of other people. I'm really thinking of moving back to the mainland again.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Sep 21
Can you not find job in the mainland so you can be near him? Colds and coughs these days should not be taken for granted.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
I'm sure I can nursing jobs are pretty easy to find specially with this pandemic. I just don't want to break my contract and end up paying breech fee.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
@florelway yeah that would be in a year and 3 months. Quite a long time. But we've been trying really hard to visit each other regularly.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Sep 21
@flapiz maybe once your contract is nearing expiration you can find something in your boyfriend's place.
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@rakski (125822)
• Philippines
11 Sep 21
aw, I am sorry to know this. I hope your boyfriend feel better soon. How is your arm? Did you see the doctor?
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
Hello! I hope he'd be fine he texted me this morning and said he is still feeling rough. My arm is still tingly but less painful I've been seeing a chiropractor which is really expensive. I'm running out of funds.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
@rakski I know it's hard to be optimistic when sickie. I'm really hoping for the days to go quicker so I can visit him.
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@rakski (125822)
• Philippines
11 Sep 21
@flapiz oh no. I hope both you and your boyfriend will recover soon
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@kaylachan (71566)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Sep 21
I know it can be hard when a loved one is struggling. But, he knows you're there for him.
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
I know but I want to be there physically giving him massages, meds, and cuddles you know.
@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 21
Sorry to know this. Why can't you be there with him? Is there any issue?
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
I'm working in an island called guernsey need to take a flight to be there plus hospital is really short of staff these days. I really just can't take off.
@solidcodes (1765)
• Philippines
11 Sep 21
probably covid related?
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 21
I'm hoping not. He's double vaccinated but he does deal a lot with people with his line of work.
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