Overbearing parents

@Dreamerby (5153)
Calcutta, India
September 13, 2021 2:36am CST
My parents blame me for everything. From grades to trivial things, the blame me for everything. They always compare me with others. But every child is different right?I really don't want to live with them anymore. I want to find a job as soon as possible and just leave.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
13 Sep 21
Relax. They are just trying to show you something. To help you move and do something about your life. Parents are just guidance. You must not be affected by what they say. Do the best you can do and someday they will be proud of you
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
13 Sep 21
@FaruMesh Thank you
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
13 Sep 21
Well said
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
13 Sep 21
I know but overdoing something is wrong
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Faru Mesh
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
13 Sep 21
I think your parents are trying to teach you something. Talk with them calmly about your problems. Leaving home is not a solution right now I guess. Work hard and I'm sure they will be proud of you some day.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
13 Sep 21
I know but overdoing something is wrong
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TerribleMan
@TerribleMan (579)
• India
13 Sep 21
I think nearly half the human parents are like this. Comparison seems to be quite common. It is good to be independent. Otherwise, one simply has to adjust with the parents. Anyway, the final decision has to be of the individual.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
13 Sep 21
Yes
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
13 Sep 21
Why do they blame you for everything, you should discuss it with them calmly. I agree everyone has his/her strength and weakness one should not compare a child with any other child. How old are you at present?.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
13 Sep 21
I am 18 years old now. I am pursuing BTECH probably will get a job in next 4 years. It's not that easy to discuss it with my parents. Especially mom...she keeps on shouting. I just want to move into a hostel when offline classes start
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
13 Sep 21
@Dreamerby which year?
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
14 Sep 21
@sjvg1976 First year
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Rashna Gandhi
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
13 Sep 21
Ok dear. Calm down. Some parents are like that and at the end of the day, they care for us. Find a suitable job for yourself and leave the house gracefully without doing any fights with them. Take care
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Meru meru
@Merumeru (29)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 21
how old are you now? hope, you'll gonna find a nice job. go find another place and find your happiness..
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
13 Sep 21
I am 18 years old now. I am pursuing BTECH probably will get a job in next 4 years
Jojo
@Sojourn (13837)
• India
13 Sep 21
Many parents are like this unfortunately, but they will learn their mistake once you find a job or achieve something. Then they will be proud of you.
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MerryBelle
@merrybelle2021 (1393)
• Philippines
13 Sep 21
If you stop schooling now and start working instead, you have to make sure you get a very high paying job and know how to manage your money well because you will be paying for everything.
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Lotus
@elmer0421 (432)
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20 Jul 22
Do you feel you are always controlled? It's very sad that many are raised by manipulative parents.Lots of online videos now featuring narcissistic parents...
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5153)
• Calcutta, India
20 Jul 22
Yes they are controlling to some extent.
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