Do you as a parent want your child to follow your footsteps in career?

@ThatDisha (4010)
India
September 16, 2021 9:17am CST
I don't know about other countries but in India, i have seen children following their parents' footsteps in career. Often the parents too want their kids to follow their footsteps even if they the child don't want to they are much pressurized. As the children grow up they too believe in following their parents' career as they start believing that it would be easier as their parents are already settled in here and they don't have to face much competition..they forget their own potential or don't try to polish their other skill. What would you like your child to follow, his/her own passion or your career?
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
16 Sep 21
No because they have their own likes, abilities and passion
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• Kenya
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha by having faith and supporting them seeking advice from people in the filed will also help and we need to be flexible even when when we have a different career we can still do anything
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
Will you not be uncertain if he/ she opts for a new carrier, which have no links with your own, will you not think about what if he/she doesn't succeed in that carrier?
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 21
I would never want my kids to be an engineer like me. There is saturation in this field now. I would ask my kid to make their carrier in the field they are interested in.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha everyone has to struggle in life. It may be my kids or anyone else kid. They should learn that life is not easy to live.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
@sjvg1976 yes, this is to be understood by every parent and every kid too, we need to struggle and make our own place in the society.. today i taught a lesson about the same topic in one of the junior class and since then it has stuck in my mind..i am too doing the same thing following my parents' footsteps just to be secure enough in future..it shouldn't have been done
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
Will you not be insecure wheather they will succeed in it or not, if you would not be able to help them with their career which wouldn't be related to yours then?
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Sep 21
I want my kids to get a job or a career that makes them happy. Why do something you don’t like to please another person all that does is make you unhappy. As a parent it’s not part of parenthood to make my kids feel they have to do as I’ve done. Clearly I do not do the same thing as my own mother. She is a working women always has been me I’m a stay at home mom. My daughter she is only 10 and doesn’t even know what she wants yet. My boys they express thing they like abs we explore them.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha the only thing I force my kids to do is going to school abs doing there school work. The rest is us working together or me punishing them for being bad.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
@ShyBear88 punishing sometimes help for being disciplined, though it shouldn't be harsh
@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
That's so good, parents should give child supported morally but they should not try to force them to their footsteps
@DaddyEvil (137802)
• United States
16 Sep 21
No... while I've enjoyed my life, I want my daughter to do what makes her happy. She and I like a lot of the same things but she's shy where I'm only a little bit shy... and I'm sweet and innocent but she definitely isn't...
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@DaddyEvil (137802)
• United States
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha You're supposed to let me have some fun.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
@DaddyEvil ahem ahem.. pretty should join mylot too
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
Haha..shy? Sorry who
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Sep 21
I worked in the medical field, with only a simple certification. I never pressured my daughter to follow in this pattern. Instead, she went into the medical field, excelled in every area, earned highly respected degrees and loves this choice that she made. Also, I took care of other people's children, while the parents worked. My daughter is a Pediatrics Nurse, she cares for sick children in a hospital.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha I never earned a degree in the medical field. I was a simple nursing assistant.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
That's nice! My parents are in the medical field too and i am following their pathway; just gave my medical entrance examination this year
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
@kobesbuddy did your daughter chosen this career after seeing you?
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@Minnimie (116)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 21
I don't have kid, but my parents always told me to do what I want to pursue in career.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
Are they not scared if you could not succeed and they could not do anything
@Minnimie (116)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 21
maybe, but since they trust me and give me this chance, I'll do what I can to make them proud of me.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
@Minnimie that's great I wish you all the best
• India
16 Sep 21
I have not followed in my parents footsteps. I do not have children. Suppose I had children, I do not think they should be pressurized by me to follow in my footsteps. Every person has the right to decide his career. It may be true that one may feel afraid when the child is walking on a totally different career path. However, if the child is showing true interest in his field and is quite passionate on that career path, then there is no doubt he will succeed. My paternal grandfather was a carpenter, while my father was on some government job. I am an online writer. My maternal grandfather;s father was a cook, while grandfather was in some clothes business job while my mother became a teacher.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
It's true that parents should not be insecure if the child chooses different carrier, i will do the same
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 21
I don't have kids. But if I did, my dream is not related to them. They should live their own life.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
19 Sep 21
That's what i will do
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@RebeccasFarm (90543)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Sep 21
As a matter of fact, my son was also doing hair, ..it is in the family back through the generations.
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• Arvada, Colorado
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha Yes you are it is good
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
Oh . that's good too, i am also doing the same
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
16 Sep 21
We are happy our two sons followed their own paths of interest. They love their careers and are happy and successful. Most parents want that for their children.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
17 Sep 21
That's great, glad to know this What they do?
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
17 Sep 21
@DianneN great!
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@solidcodes (1766)
• Philippines
16 Sep 21
No, will not pressure children to follow me. They have their own passion and special abilities.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21
Don't you be tensed for them? If they choose such a carrier where chances of getting success is quite low
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• Philippines
16 Sep 21
@ThatDisha In that case I will meddle.
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@ThatDisha (4010)
• India
16 Sep 21