do you fight in front of your child/ren?

What you are doing is right,but means lot of sacrifices.If accidentally your children have caught you in the act of that situation,then you must be prepared for some explainations they will believe.Be careful.If you can hold yourself and control yelling with each other,avoid this things even not in front of your children,so you will be used of it. If not so bad or just nonesense avoid discussions and yelling.Instead discuss good things,only practice and control,the result is happiness.

You shouldn't fight in front.I was traumatize when my parents were fighting in front of me. The consequence could be that your child would not approach you anymore because they might feel unsafe if they go near to you.

It's not a good idea to fight in front of children. In todays world of divorce and abuse it does cause children to be afraid, or angry. Remember that people will listen closer to a lower voice than a loud one. You can always tune out someomne who is yelling.

I agree with you. My husband and i try very hard not to argue infront of our son, And there have been times when despite all our efforts it just happens. Our son who is only 2, ususaly tell us to stop it and it makes us realize we really dont need to have this discussion infront of him, I totaly agree. dont fight infront of the kids.

we try not to fight infront of the kid.

One of the worst things parents can do is to fight before the children.... This must be avoided at any cost!

that the worst thing you can do.

You are doing right. dont ever fight infront of you children. it can be affect they live. im not married yet but I will not fight in front of my children someday.

Great topic, floramwaters! I'm a single mother now, but when I was married, we fought an awful lot. He even became physically abusive. Nothing like your child's first two word sentence being "FU". I'm so glad it's over. It's been 5 years now, and I probably won't be marrying again until the kids graduate, which is another 6 years. It's great to hear you're on top of it, but know we can only do our best, and apologizing to our children for our actions teaches them a lot.

sometimes, but most of the time we see to it that we will not fight in front of our kids.

IN A PERFECT WORLD THERE WOULD BE NO FIGHTING AMONG FAMILIES...but as we all know the world isn't perfect, not even close. Fighting in front of your children only hurts them as well as teaches them that its ok to fight. They will always be afraid for each of their parents, knowing that someday one of them may hurt the other. things like this are very seldom forgotten by children and has a devastating effect on them. You should try to never let your kids see or even hear you arguing.Sometimes they even think its their fault that you argue...how sad is that??

Well for me, if u are parents who has kids it is important not to shout with each other infornt of kids specially if your kids are still very young coz they might follow what they well see.

We try really hard not to fight infront of our daughter, but sometimes we end up fighting anyways. She's only 10 months old, but even at this age I can tell it upsets her. Even if we're not yelling at eachother she definitely feels the tension and will start crying. My parents fought infront of me alot when I was growing up and I remember how terrible it used to make me feel. I don't want to do the same thing to my daughter.

i am not married and i dont have child. But i think its very bad to fight in front of childs.

we have done so, but not often and not ugly fighting

i not married yet .....but it has very bad effect on ur child as far as i know .....u shld try to syop it.....atleast shld avoid that infront of them.. have a nice day

No , I grew up in a family where my dad was constantly yelling and I promised myself that my children would never experiance that. It was hard on me when I was younger and no child should be exposed to that. On occasion well bicker but not yell.

It's not too healthy to be fighting in front of children. Children learn from everything that they see and hear. Most of the time, children just hear yelling and screaming, and they think that they are arguing about them, which puts them in a bad frame of mind. People think that it's ok to argue in front of children to teach them that it's ok to disagree. I don't agree with that either! Arguing in front of children brings a lot of tension!

i m not married yet but i think so that parents never try to quarrel in front of their kids. it will give the adverse effects towards the childrens and give him a wrong thought about their parents so keep your child safe never try to fight not only in front of kids as well as other. always try to comprise with each other thnx.

Fighting in front of my child was one of the reasons my husband and I are no longer together and to this day I try not to fight in front of her be it with friends, family, or anyone. I don't think it is good to set that kind of example in front of children espcially because they pick up and mimic what they are hearing. The last thing I want is for my daughter to go to daycare yelling and scolding because that is what she hears on a daily basis :(