Have you been a victim of crime?

@snowy22315 (182199)
United States
September 28, 2021 4:01pm CST
Don't answer this if it is too personal, but if you have been you know it is creepy and a violation of your boundaries, beyond what was taken. I have been but basically both times, I think they were kids my son knew. The only other time was some people who were harassing my co worker. I was giving him a ride home and they started in with homophobic stuff and banging on the car windows. I don't know if he was gay or not, we never discussed it,( Im not) but i t was frightening. I did not know what t whey would do, and it was about 12:30AM so scary as heck!
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@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
29 Sep 21
My parents were robbed and murdered when i was 13.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
OH my God, I am so sorry. That is truly shocking.
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@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Sep 21
What? I'm so sorry
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• United States
29 Sep 21
Wow...I am so sorry
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@rebelann (112979)
• El Paso, Texas
28 Sep 21
I was robbed once but luckily I was not home at the time.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 21
Legally that is burglary rather than rOberhausen.
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@rebelann (112979)
• El Paso, Texas
28 Sep 21
And burglary is a crime .... at least it was the last time I checked.
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@sallypup (61636)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Sep 21
@rebelann When it happened to me the cop gestured at my china cabinet and its fragile contents and said I was lucky. Computers stolen but yeah I was lucky.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
28 Sep 21
Many many times and I am lucky to be here I tell you.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
Sorry to hear that it is a frightening experience.
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• Arvada, Colorado
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 Indeed thanks
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Oct 21
@RebeccasFarm many here were victims of robbery then.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
29 Sep 21
I was attacked in Miami and our apartment in Milan was burgled years ago, we also had one car stolen, also in Milan.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
Fortunately, have never been attacked although one time a mugger in Mexico tried to knock our purses off our arms by running past us very close and very fast.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
@LadyDuck Funny, you are the only one I have heard of attacked there. I was there once and left my wallet in a taxi cab. The taxi driver brought it back to my hotel.. I offered a reward but he would take nothing.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 They guys were three (in Miami), they pushed me to make me fall and grabbed my purse. I badly hit my head on the ground and I fainted, it could have been worse, I am here to remember.
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@innertalks (22090)
• Australia
29 Sep 21
I had a house once where I was only living in it at the weekends. I was single then, and it was easier to live with my Mum still, and commute into my work from there. People must have been watching my habits, and I was robbed. The sad part was that I had major security on that house, window bars, and the like, but I could tell from the muddy footprints, going right through the house on the floors, and the carpet, that the kid was only young, maybe only 5, or 6 years of age. The larger size footprints at the window that was forced open, to squeeze his kid though, showed that a parent was behind this robbery, and my large CD collection, and player, were wrapped in my expensive doona, that my mother had given to me as a housewarming present, and shoved out of the window to the waiting father. After that robbery, I bit the bullet, and moved in full time to my house. He was never caught of course, and probably now, his young son, is caught up in a life of crime now too, as he started at such an early age, taught by his father how to rob.
@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
That is sad. What is a doona?
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
@innertalks Yes, I know what a duvet is. I was confused by the word doona, although I might have heard it before. Duvet is used here, but comforter is more common.
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@innertalks (22090)
• Australia
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 Thanks, a doona is an Australian word for a quilt that covers a bed. It is warmer than a blanket. I think in other countries they call it a duvet. "A duvet is a type of bedding consisting of a soft flat bag filled with either down, feathers, wool, cotton, silk, or a synthetic alternative, and is typically protected with a removable cover, analogous to a pillow and pillow case." Wikipedia
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@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
29 Sep 21
Am sorry that happened......well I never experienced anything such, but have been pickpocketed more than couple of times....
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Oct 21
@S4mmyboy, my gosh, that was so bad. Have you caught the pickpocketer? I guessed not.
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@pumpkinjam (8769)
• United Kingdom
29 Sep 21
I have been the victim of crime on more than one occasion. Each time, I felt like I was the one being treated like a criminal and not taken seriously. Years ago, we had some items stolen from our garden. Despite the thieves being known to the police and us providing evidence, we were told nothing could be done. That was just one incident. Thankfully, I've never been a victim of violent crime or anything like that. The most worrying thing for me is knowing that the people who are supposed to protect you choose not to believe you.
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• United Kingdom
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 there was evidence, the police just chose not to do anything. They decided that because they personally hadn't seen it with their own eyes that nothing could be done. I was also the victim of fraud once, yet I was the one punished despite providing proof that the other people were lying.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
@pumpkinjam That is too bad,,I have been lucky with that, and my bank and or credit card company has backed me up. One of the times though when my account was charged it took forever to get the money back..They had to "investigate it" although even the motel that charged the card admitted they make a mistake from the get go.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
They might have believed you, but like you said without evidence there is little they can do. We called them out about the boat incident, without someone actually seeing something they couldn't do anything, or I guess I should say wouldn't do anything.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
29 Sep 21
Thankfully this never happened to me. That's so frightening
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
Yes, it does sound scary.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
3 Oct 21
Sorry to hear about it but I am fortunate that nothing like this ever happened with me.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
3 Oct 21
That's great. It's no fun.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
28 Sep 21
I agree it is creepy.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
28 Sep 21
Yes, it is the violation as much as what is taken.
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@rakski (126012)
• Philippines
29 Sep 21
thankfully I did not experienced that
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
You are right to be thankful
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@rakski (126012)
• Philippines
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 oh, I remember some burglary happened in our old home but that was a long, long time ago. I think I was still a baby then, I just heard it
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Sep 21
That is scary. Yes, I have been and the person who trashed my home was never found. Not long ago, I found out my older son was involved in the crime, even though he wasn't there, he was with us for my grandson's first birthday party, so I didn't know he was part of what happened.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
Sorry to hear that
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 Thank you.
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@Deepizzaguy (104177)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
28 Sep 21
I was once held up at a gasoline station working as a cashier on the midnight shift when a customer fired a shot at the bulletproof window after not paying for his gasoline bill.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
28 Sep 21
Than goodness the window was bulletproof !
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@Deepizzaguy (104177)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
29 Sep 21
@snowy22315 That is true.
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@Shiva49 (26776)
• Singapore
29 Sep 21
I got into the company car at the last moment for official work. I shared it to get dropped at an office. There were some labor issues and a few accosted the car and soon I was injured from a sharp stone thrown at the Director who was with me. It could have even killed me but I got away without major injury. I dread to recall that incident that happened nearly fifty years ago
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
That would be very scary for sure. Glad you weren't hurt.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
29 Sep 21
Got robbed of my mobile phone.
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@sallypup (61636)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Sep 21
Yup and bought the t shirt.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
28 Sep 21
It is no fun that is for sure.
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@JudyEv (342145)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Sep 21
That would have been an awful experience. Thankfully, and touch wood, we haven't had anything like that happen here.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
I hope it stays that eay.
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• United States
29 Sep 21
That is horrible that he was under attack like that, and you had to be there too. Why people are so filled with hate boggles my mind everyday.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
29 Sep 21
They were probably drunk and looking to cause trouble.
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• United States
29 Sep 21
My family was robbed a few years ago. The (insert whatever cuss word you want to use) even reached over a baby crib (with the child in it) to grab an Ipad. They were really silent and managed to rob us with 7 adults in the house and 4 dogs. I am still on edge about it. My eldest was a victim of multiple types of abuse at the hands of a significant other. And before anyone asks, yes she said I could post it. She actually has used the experience to help others who are in the same position and follows the it didn't kill me it made me stronger mind set.
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