Because I'm not my sister's, my cousins dislike me

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I have two cousins who are so indefferent with me. One of them is almost my age. He's not from the Philippines but he based in US and been living in New York since the 80's. Sometime in 90's he came here in Manila for a visit. I've been warning him about my aunt, his mom that he's prioritizing his driver and gives everything to him. And my aunt sends the driver to school. She sent him to school to graduate in College then afterwards she sent him to lawschool. Sending the driver was not a big deal. But abusing my aunt is a different thing. Imagine, he goes to our family business and tells our other helpers, he is given permission by my aunt to get the sales of our business and never remits it to my aunt. My aunt always tell us to fix some of her documents and we found out all of my cousins, my sisters, his son has an insurance named to us. After a while, all the insurances were gone. She withdrew the money and gave it to the driver. What makes matters worst, even my cousin lost his part of the money. My aunt asks his son to sign the insurance and said he will not be recieve anything anymore and it will be transfered *the money" to the driver. Grrrr.... I told him, see I'm warning you... And he said, why am I being so mean, why am I backstabbing my aunt? I said I am not, I'm just warning you. Since then, he never befriended me over Facebook. We stopped talking. I've been asking him to add me but ignore me. After so many years, just wee days ago he came home for a visit. I asked him. Again, why aren't you adding me. He answered with a smile and said nothing. Ignored me again. He doesn't want anything to do with her especially he's not in her senses anymore. What matters to him is her properties. I'm not surprised. I believe in Karma. She even maltreated us when we were young especially when my mom and dad was in the States. Then, I have another cousin. She's an elitist. She Is married to a famous guy. Her husband is nicer than her. The first time he mistreated me was during my College years back in the 90s. On the birthday of my cousin-in-law I brought him a chocolate cake. He was thankful. After seeing it she said, wow auntie the Chocolate looks good. Thank you I smiled. She asked where mom, where did you buy this? Mom said, No, Hazel made that. And she sundenlly said, ya ganun! Is that so? Ay, you know auntie, my friend makes the best cake. She suddenly had a change of heart. And we learned she didn't eat it anymore, she gave it away. Wow! Eversince then she's been like that. My sister who's based in Israel,she likes her a lot. Whenever she comes home, hey, you're here plala. Let's see each other, I'll treat you. But when my other sister was based in Saudi, my cousin questions her, why in Saudi? She looks down at her. But when she transferred to UK, she suddenly was nice to her. And to add to that, because my sister is now is based in UK, she pampers my niece the daughter of my sister. Last year my mom had her bityhday, we were planning we'd go out as a family. Then this cousin of mine wants to take out my mom But she said, only you ha,auntie, don't tag along Haze and my niece. To think the birthday of my mom was 5 days away. My mom said no. Then later on she sent mom some presents and grated her happy birthday, She never grated me or anything. I'm sorry to say, my sister's are from abroad that's why she likes them. But since I'm from Manila, she doesn't like me she likes my mom because she's a UST grad and I'm from PWU. And she's from UP. That's life.