alone and its not my fault - what can i do? / myLot

Israel

October 20, 2021 10:10am CST

my spouse's mother has lost her husband 2 years ago. from that point she does not want to stay alone in the house and she wants only her son to stay with her she does not care about me, about our daughter, about his job nowdays he sleeps all week at her house and when he comes home for a few hours she rings him every hour i am very lonely and he is frustrated. what do you think we can do??

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marguicha

@marguicha (223720)

• Chile

20 Oct 21

I´d take her to a psychiatrist. I´m sorry if this sounds rude, but I don´t mean it that way.

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liranlgo

@liranlgo (5752)

• Israel

20 Oct 21

Thank you. you don't soind rude. we did that, but the psyc thinks that everything is ok with her. That was his evaluation.

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@marguicha (223720)

• Chile

20 Oct 21

@liranlgo Then take her to another shrink.

Judy Evans

@JudyEv (341742)

• Rockingham, Australia

3 Nov 21

I think your husband should set some rules about when he stays and for how long - maybe six days a week for a month or two then five days a week. You have your own lives to need.

Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (317249)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

21 Oct 21

Your husband needs to put his family first, not his mother. When God created the world, he made them male and female and said they were to leave father and mother and be joined as one. He hasn't left his mother.