2013 Sweet Memories

It's me
@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
October 25, 2021 10:09am CST
I 2013, I met someone through a wrong text. It was new year's eve when I texted a wrong number, he responded and became friends and lovers. It was a long distance relationship and that time 300 pesos worth text / call load was so enough to feel the love journey through connecting wires in a cellular phone. He's from Benguet near Baguio City. His name is Rod Espinoza. He has curly hair and quiet handsome. I've learned he's a Industrial and Mining Engineer. Our love affair was made short good for 1 year when someone texted me, his live in partner. Rod told me the woman at that year was 65 years old and he 28. I told him, goodbye and take good care of your grandma . I'm a practical person. I could face a challenging ordeal squarely.That is life. It's better to have love and lost than never to have love at all. Thank you guys. The photo image was created by Rod for me with our inscribed theme song 'Habang May Buhay' ( While There's Life)
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
25 Oct 21
You were great to terminate
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• Arvada, Colorado
25 Oct 21
@cacay1 You are a strong woman Erly..it is more power to you..yes termites lol
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@RebeccasFarm end the termite in your neighbourhood
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Oct 21
@RebeccasFarm, terminate a termite. It was also painful yes I was hurt but I was able to resolve. 4 years ago Rod was searching me via Facebook but I instantly blocked him. Facebook is power.
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
26 Oct 21
Woah wait.. so was he really older than 28
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@Courtlynn it's Rod 28, his live in partner 65
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
26 Oct 21
@cacay1 that's creepy, that's why I asked if he was really 28 or lying about his age lol
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@Courtlynn he's 28, he sent me his Passport. We had planned to meet in person December that year to meet my family and he would go on vacation to Japan at a company's expense as year end gift but we ended our relationship. Our love went wrong.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
25 Oct 21
Looked so sweet and innocent.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
25 Oct 21
@cacay1 Good thing you were able to preserve this priceless memento
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@cherigucchi, I found this in my file. This is framed by Rod and sent me a copy. He also sent me framed stones in his work place as a mining engineer. I forgot the name of his company.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Oct 21
@cherigucchi I was a new graduate and new teacher in Cagayan de Oro College PHINA Education Network. I'm now in USTP CDO.
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Oct 21
I'm glad it was good while it lasted. I would have told him goodbye too.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Oct 21
@just4him, I'm always exploring to unknowns but I am still despite that. What I am always pondering is why are there liars to the bones
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Oct 21
@cacay1 It's sad there are. We always need to be on our guard against such people.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@just4him, yes, but I was young that time fresh graduate at age 20. It's also nice to have someone even invisible
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
26 Oct 21
So Hot Rod wasn't that hot after all. You win , he loses ...
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@Bullshark he's a loser, cheater, liar.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
27 Oct 21
@cacay1 Forget Rod, he lost. Bye Rod!
@Vree0937 (3879)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 21
@cacay1 wow.. good think you're seperate from him LOL
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@Vree0937 (3879)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 21
His living partnee 65 yrs old? R u sure?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@Vree0937 , yes that's her age that was she declared to me. Rod told me the reason why it landed that way. It was a very long story.
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@Vree0937 (3879)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 21
@cacay1 I can imagine that. I read news too that one lady in Sulawesi (near PH), 65yrs old married with 20s young man. They said its love due to habit. Well, I hope them happiness
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 21
You were brave to terminate it.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@yanzalong, it's useless to inject pain onto my heart. It's me alone to feel it and my feeling was converted to hatred.
@allknowing (137603)
• India
27 Oct 21
This love is of a unique kind
@jstory07 (139817)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Oct 21
Time to end that relationship. It is better to have love than never have love.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@jstory07 perfect my friend, anyway that was a virtual relationship. Yes I fall for him despite we're invisible but words are mightier and from love to hate from a cheat was the mightiest.
@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
26 Oct 21
You was right to terminate that toxic relationship. How can a 28 years old man live with a 65 years old woman?
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
27 Oct 21
@cacay1 Some men need a Momma, not a woman.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@LadyDuck I laugh aloud here. Yes toxic love must end instantly.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
25 Oct 21
You did the right thing. Love the image!
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@DianneN, thanks Dianne. I was a fresh graduate and a new teacher that time.
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@Dena91 (16692)
• United States
25 Oct 21
I understand why you ended the relationship.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Oct 21
@Dena91, yes I ended it right away for it's not easy to think I was cheated. The sudden impulse of hatred drove me to end that way. He made me like an insane for making me believe he's single. What a shame on him hiding the truth of having a very old live in partner 65 and he 28 and he's licenced engineer?
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
28 Oct 21
Glad that you terminated it. That relationship doesn't sound good. And he was actually cheating on both of you