Don't Trust Your Peace Of Mind To No Backwoods Self-Help Northern Writer (MyLot Exclusive #736)
By Greg
@xander6464 (44450)
Wapello, Iowa
November 1, 2021 1:13pm CST
9. “The Power of Now” Eckhart Tolle
Peace of mind arrives with becoming a calm observer of your own consciousness in the moment, instead of a frantically shifting between past and future.
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----------------Psychology, philosophy, and self-help
I really like Top Ten Must-Reads Summarized in One Sentence ((LINK BELOW)) by Brad (That's how he's credited, just Brad). It and its companion articles, Ten More Must-Reads Summarized In One Sentence and Ten Philosophers Summarized Into One Sentence (BOTH ARE LINKED AT THE BOTTOM OF THE LINK I GAVE YOU)), have already saved me many hours of tedious reading.
It has also given me the opportunity to point out the never-ending torrent of raw sewage that comes from a lot of self-help psychology books.
The prime example is the one-sentence boil down of The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. My question is: How are you supposed to be a calm observer of your own consciousness in the moment, if, for example, you're presently having a kidney stone?
There are countless other examples but I went for one of the most painful ones. There is no way you could be a calm observer of your own consciousness in that moment. And it's not going to bring Peace Of Mind. There might be a rare exception to that rule but for most people, it holds.
The whole point is that the vast majority of these Pop-Psychology books take a little bit of common sense and mix it up with a lot of malarky and the problem is that it appeals to people.
Even though it's ultimately worthless. But they don't realize it until the fraudster has their money.
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Top Ten Must-Reads Summarized in One Sentence
Psychology, philosophy, and self-help
Brad
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@arunima25 (87852)
• Bangalore, India
1 Nov 21
Power of Now is my favourite book and I always fall back to the book when I get doubts and lack self motivation.
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@xander6464 (44450)
• Wapello, Iowa
3 Nov 21
@arunima25 I'm glad it works for you. I don't understand how but I'm still happy it works.
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@divalounger (6118)
• United States
4 Nov 21
I am a big fan of mindfulness and meditation. But most of that is free. and kind of the same stuff--staying present in the moment--kidney stones might be an exception--but mindful breathing is a big deal in giving birth and I doubt that a kidney stone is more painful than that
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@divalounger (6118)
• United States
10 Nov 21
@xander6464 I hope you never have to either!
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@xander6464 (44450)
• Wapello, Iowa
5 Nov 21
I only have one first-hand account to go by from someone who has experienced both, my mom says that kidney stones are worse than giving birth. I think it would be fair to say that some of each are worse than others so they probably average out to being about the same.
If mindful breathing is a big help, I'd certainly be willing to try it but I hope I never have to.
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@innertalks (22116)
• Australia
4 Nov 21
I have never jelled with this spiritual guru type either.
He takes bread from the past and covers it over with his own spread of jam, not realising that some of that bread is already mouldy.
"The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it."
is a quote of Echart Tolle's.
But to me, there are no causes for both unhappiness, nor happiness.
Happiness is always there, as it is the meat of life, but when you do not like that meat, you become a vegetarian, and so need to find happiness again, all over.
Acceptance of life, as it is, is the only real happiness.
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@xander6464 (44450)
• Wapello, Iowa
4 Nov 21
I still don't see how that's possible during a kidney stone. Or a million other calamities.
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@xander6464 (44450)
• Wapello, Iowa
4 Nov 21
@innertalks Her voice never returned?
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@innertalks (22116)
• Australia
4 Nov 21
@xander6464 No, it never returned, the cancer had taken it away, she had to use facial expressions to communicate, as she was too weak to use her hands and arms to write anything down too.