Happy Married life depends upon good communication!

When you communicate to your partner, use the right tone of voice irrespective of the status of the message, A right message with a wrong tone may create confusion between you both. An aggressive and sarcastic way of communication is no the right way to communicate. Watch your voice tone when you speak to your partner about important things in your life. Yes, a casual way of speaking is different from addressing issues to your partner. Your partner knows you better than anyone else in the world. So, you have to be attentive and alert when you speak to him on many occasions.

@Manasha That’s correct. Sometimes what makes missed communication arise is the way we delivered the message with wrong tone of voice. We have to pay attention to it to make things clear.

You shall listen to your partner during conversation very carefully without being defensive. Both the partners have to give ears to others' explanations during a discussion. Do not interfere when your partner speaks to you about a specific issue. Let you give her or him some space to speak about anything. By this move, you shall understand what exactly is present in your partner's mind, and so you shall solve the issue tactfully. How do you solve an issue without understanding your partner?

@LadyDuck Thats great. all the best

@Manasha Do not worry I know how to make a marriage last, I am married from 50 years.

An exchange of emotion, desires, and beliefs between two people in a marriage relationship in an open way give them success forever. They should not hide anything from others without communicating. Communication is the basis for a successful marriage relationship, and miscommunication or less communication spoils everything. A poor communicator shall not address the issues, so tussle continues ever without a solution. Automatically, married life ends in disaster without any doubt. Without any delay, both the partners have to address and consider their concerns to solve quickly through effective communication. Hence, communication in marriage is vital and paramount for a long-lasting relationship.

@ShyBear88 Life is not a bed of roses, but it has thorns too. Hence, you may face a lot of disappointment and frustration as the year pass on. Bitterness and resentment occur in your way of life. Hence, you may be prepared to face those incidents in your life. What is the solution, except communicating with your partner what you feel? Your feelings have to be communicated tactfully to your partner for a change. When you express your opinion about your partners' wrong action, it has to be done constructively instead of criticizing badly. Yes, constructive communication changes your partner a lot in their way of action and thoughts. Instead of constructive communication, if you communicate differently with your partner, the results will be different. So, shoot your question in a decent way and with care.

@Manasha I don’t get what your saying it’s like your trying to be just say I agree but want to make it more complex then it needs to be.