Is it time for me to leave MyLot?

@TheHorse (217886)
Walnut Creek, California
November 19, 2021 11:08pm CST
As many of you know, I have had some difficulties on the internet recently. My Facebook page was hacked, and I no longer have access to it. Several thousands of dollars were recently stolen from me, perhaps in part because of information I have provided on MyLot and other websites. I no longer feel safe on the internet. I want to thank those who have become my friends here over the years. I have enjoyed our conversations, and I am especially thankful to @vandana7 and her friend @DJ, for generating and supporting supporting my YouTube videos. The internet feels like an unsafe place, and I do not want to lose the monies I've saved over the years for my retirement. Again, thanks to those who have been my friends over the past five years or so. Many of you have my contact information.
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@LadyDuck (470745)
• Switzerland
20 Nov 21
I think that you can continue to be here avoiding to share personal information, but I cannot see how you can blame myLot for the missing money.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I don't blame MyLot in any way. But I worry that my overall footprint on the internet may put me at-risk. I'll have to think about this.
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@LadyDuck (470745)
• Switzerland
20 Nov 21
@TheHorse Think about this, who knew that you were waiting for that check? You did not share here, did you share on other social media? If not think to those who know in real world.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
@LadyDuck I did not tell anyone in the real world. I don't discuss my finances with others. There is one shady lady who lives here. But I have no evidence that it was her. She drives a fancy car but hangs out with ruffians. I spoke to the Sheriff this morning, and that made me feel better. They will do a thorough investigation. Sadly, he told me that mail theft is common here, even though it's a Federal offense. "They never pursue that," he said. A lawyer friend told me of some young woman who stole $400,000 from a gas station where they worked (her client owned the gas station). They were never prosecuted (though they lost their boats and fancy cars) because the District Attorney was "too busy."
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@JudyEv (338640)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Nov 21
I am really sorry to hear you are leaving and it's awful to think you have had money stolen. That is awful. I wish you all the best.
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@GardenGerty (160488)
• United States
20 Nov 21
@TheHorse Yay for the sheriff. Grrrr for the lady at the bank. Taking care of these problems is her job. You do need to be careful online with information, but I almost felt like this was sort of an inside job.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Nov 21
@GardenGerty It may be. I will gather more information when I have the time. Perhaps tomorrow.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
Thanks, Judy. I am in problem-solving mode this morning. I just called the local Sheriff. They were helpful and will take a report as soon as I gather more information. The lady at my bank in the fraud department was dismissive last night.
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@BarBaraPrz (47125)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Nov 21
If you leave, who will ask us what we had for breakfast/lunch/dinner?
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
Have you ever had midnight dinner? In hostel, we used to sneak food in boxes, and sit and eat on terrace at midnight when we were studying. That was fun.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
That's a good point.
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
Oh no...is that what you teach kids? Quit when the going gets tough... I have listed some steps ... in Anna's box in your other post. Please try those. I am not sure anybody can trace information from websites like myLot. As to facebook, yes, you need to change the password and other information after the debacle you faced. Especially since your account has been hacked there multiple number of times. Please issue stop payment instructions to your bank immediately. We will know the hacker.
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
@TheHorse For succeeding payments Pony...till the problem is resolved. I wish my English was good to get across to you. Sigh.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
They can't issue a stop payment, because the check was already cashed. But I contacted the Sheriff this morning, and the fella I talked to was helpful.
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@wolfgirl569 (105254)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Nov 21
I will miss you if you leave. But I dont think mylot had anything to do with lost money.
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
Me too. Just when I thought my matchmaking money will land in my account, it landed in somebody else's account.
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
20 Nov 21
@TheHorse Europe's ready! I think *checks news* Avoid people shouting in the streets, especially if they yell "Freedom!".
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
Several people have said that, and I think I agree. I spoke with someone from the Sheriff's office this morning, and they WILL launch an investigation That made me feel more comfortable. Maybe I need to move to Europe.
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@LindaOHio (176652)
• United States
20 Nov 21
I don't think MyLot had anything to do with your loss since you didn't give out any personal information. I have no other way to get in touch now that your Facebook account has been hacked. Are you really leaving MyLot? Are you on Noise.cash? Please don't go!
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
21 Nov 21
@LindaOHio I have still not understood whether Pony issued that check or whether somebody else issued that check to pony.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I am not on Noise cash. As of this morning, I'm still here. I woke up wanting to write a post, as is typical. You may be right. MyLot is the least of my worries. I will contact the Sheriff this morning and see what my options are.
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@LindaOHio (176652)
• United States
21 Nov 21
@TheHorse Did you also contact the company/person that issued you the check?
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
20 Nov 21
I think my mylot-password was picked up by some scam site at some point, I got one of those "We have your videos" - emails. I deleted it, changed the password here and then forgot the whole thing. Nothing more happened. The information we upload here isn't really very sensitive (nor sensible in some cases) I hope you figure out how to stay safe online :-) and that the Sheriff is helpful.
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
21 Nov 21
@TheHorse I was tempted to answer "How stupid do you think I am? " but I decided it wasn't worth it. Answering scam mails usually means you get more.
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
21 Nov 21
@TheHorse I usually don't answer, my phone warns me. "This might be an unwanted call."
@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I am glad that nothing more happened.
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@jobelbojel (35356)
• Philippines
20 Nov 21
I am sorry of what happened.
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@FourWalls (67380)
• United States
20 Nov 21
It bothers me so much that you couldn’t contact anyone yesterday, and now you have to sweat through the weekend with no resolution. Oh, while you’re at it, do call the postal inspectors. Stealing mail is a federal crime in addition to all the other issues.
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
I am unable to understand this... The check is physical. It has Pony's name on it... written or printed. The guy who takes it deposits in his account. How? Presuming the guy misrepresents himself to be Pony... and opens an account in Pony's name in another bank, aren't there identification documents required for opening account? It is only possible if the check is not crossed... i.e., it is a bearer check. Why would anybody want to post bearer check? Kinda, they are only issued for cashing immediately. Has Pony been receiving bearer checks so far or is this one of those stray incidents.
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@jstory07 (139336)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Nov 21
I am really sad that you will be leaving.
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
As if we will let him.
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
20 Nov 21
I'm so sorry, pony... If you go, I'll really miss talking with you.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I am still here as of now. Talking to the Sheriff this morning was helpful.
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
How mean. How can you let him go....I would pick rolling pin and throw at him if he was in India. If he ducked I would throw other things too ..something would get him.
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
20 Nov 21
@TheHorse I'm so glad. I hope they'll be able to help you. I have your mailing address but that's the only way I have to contact you.
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@1creekgirl (41330)
• United States
20 Nov 21
That's terrible to have lost money like that. Take care of yourself.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I am in problem-solving mode this morning. I just talked to the Sheriff's office, and the fella I talked to was helpful. I will file a reports as soon as I gather more information.
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@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
20 Nov 21
Sorry to hear all that happened to you.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I am working on it now.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
20 Nov 21
i am so sorry. i will truly miss you, your conversations and your reminders of the joys of teaching.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I may defy my own post and stick around for a bit. You have actually inspired me. I woke up wanting to do a post about a lovely interaction at the preschool. I also talked to a Sheriff this morning, and he said they WILL launch a thorough investigation. The woman at the Fraud division at my bank basically blew me off last night, making me feel even more helpless.
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@Shiva49 (26641)
• Singapore
20 Nov 21
That is sad to hear. You have been so active here and your posts were unique too with subtle humor sprinkled. Wish you success and happiness
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@vandana7 (100123)
• India
20 Nov 21
He will continue don't worry. He is as addicted to myLotters as we are addicted to him.
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@Shiva49 (26641)
• Singapore
21 Nov 21
@vandana7 I hope so, I recall one employee who threatens to quit but never does. I know he badly needs to buy a Porsche 911 from the earnings here however long it takes. I know he is about halfway to that destination.
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@thelme55 (76843)
• Germany
20 Nov 21
I am sorry about your lost money and for leaving Mylot. Take care always and good luck.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
Thank you. We will see what happens.
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@thelme55 (76843)
• Germany
22 Nov 21
@TheHorse You’re welcome.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
20 Nov 21
Sorry to see you go but understand why you feel the way you do. I hope you will decide to come back sometime once you feel safe again.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I spoke with the local Sheriff this morning and he made me feel slightly more comfortable. The Fraud "expert" at my bank last night basically blew me off.
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
20 Nov 21
Sorry to hear. Wish you all the best in life
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
Thank you.
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
21 Nov 21
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Nov 21
So sorry to read about all of your issues lately. I hope you will reconsider leaving. We all must make our own decisions.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
I am on the fence right now. But talking to the Sheriff this morning made me feel better. I feel less helpless.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Nov 21
@cabuyogty (2963)
• Philippines
20 Nov 21
Social interaction with mylot was good for me . I think mylot will not set fees in our accounts . That's free . Thanks mylot , i can have my friends here online :)
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Nov 21
Yes, there are no fees here. One cannot "lose" money on MyLot.
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