Rambunctious kitty vs. big sister

United States
November 21, 2021 9:58am CST
Our male cat likes to play (and play and play and play and...). His older sister is past the point of wanting to spend every waking moment playing; she prefers to spend time doing other things such as meowditating, getting massages, and watching videos. She has more refined tastes than her little brother (who outweighs her by two pounds), and she is quick to point that out. I think that the pair will be happier once we move into a larger space. When we moved into here, our late girl was still with us; she was a senior whose hobbies included drinking from the faucet (and had me trained to be her servant in that regard), watching the world through the window (aka, Cat TV), and cuddling with toys. After her passing, her younger sister fell into grief--as did I. Neither of us was used to a one-cat household. So, along came Mr. Bounces-Off-Walls. They get along--when he's not up in her face demanding that she play with him or body slamming her in an attempt to get a wrestling match going. Since this is a small space, it is hard for her to avoid him being up in her face. Our next place is set to be larger. So, hopefully, she will stop calling him "Nermal" and looking for shipping supplies while asking me how to spell "Abu Dhabi."
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@rebelann (112962)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Nov 21
His poor older sister, dealing with a bouncy sibling is daunting in the best of times. I seem to fit Roscoes bill as being his older sibling and that's just not what I had aspired to be
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• United States
21 Nov 21
I feel sort of bad for our boy, because his sister can be so cranky with him. He started out surrounded by other cats (too many, in fact), so he probably always had a playmate. Now, he's stuck with an older sister who only sometimes wants to play, a kitty mama who yelps when he dives claws first into her, and a kitty daddy who is often working. It has to be disorienting for a little kitty. Our girl was always the little sister. Now, she's not the baby in the family.
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@rebelann (112962)
• El Paso, Texas
21 Nov 21
It's hard on both the older ones and the youngest but he'll become a good match as he matures.
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• United States
21 Nov 21
@rebelann I think so, too. There are times when they sleep very near to each other, which gives me hope for them building a strong sibling bond.
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@snowy22315 (181974)
• United States
21 Nov 21
Let's hope the boy finds his own niche in the larger space. Nico keeps asking why I haven't gotten him a sibling yet. She or he better be one cool customer to put up with his drama king ways.
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• United States
21 Nov 21
There is certainly a sibling out there for Nico. I think that the boy will be easier for his sister to deal with (and less injurious to me) if he has more room to run. I'd consider adding a dog to our family, but that isn't an option in a rental (due to pet limits). So, he is going to have to find other avenues for burning off his energy.
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• United States
22 Nov 21
Cats certainly are funny with their own personalities.