How do you control your anger?

@Sreekala (34312)
India
December 22, 2021 4:53am CST
Anger is not a good emotion and it will hurt others for sure. However, it is inevitable in our life. One of my friends sends a story on anger. The story goes like this. A lady had a surprise box, which was kept by her without showing her hubby. One day she decided to open the box on repeated requests of her hubby. There was a doll in the box along with some cash. She explained, she stitched that doll according to the instructions on her mother. Her mother told that whenever she gets angry on her hubby instead of showing the anger, stitch a doll so that you can handle the anger without affecting the relation. Listening the same her hubby asked, so you got angry on me only once in your life. She said the money along with this doll, I collected on selling the other dolls. It was $ 9 thousand in the box. Story is good but I don’t know how practicable this in our life. Some of you may heard this story. What you do when you get angry?
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@solidcodes (1766)
• Philippines
22 Dec 21
There are people who get angry easily. There are peple who do not get angry easily. People who get angry easily are not smart. They let their emotion ruin their decision making.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 21
What about you and how do you tackle the situation?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 21
@solidcodes I don't get angry easily either.
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• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@Sreekala I don't get angry easily. You need to pray always. It will help calm you.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
22 Dec 21
Its fine to get angry at times because it means that you are a normal person. I just stay away from the cause of my anger.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 21
Yes, getting angry is normal. We have to learn to tackle the anger without troubling other people.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Dec 21
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@Sreekala That is correct
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
22 Dec 21
It's a funny story. When I get angry, I express it by words. I can't keep it inside. I then can calm down. I try not to get angry often. I hadn't been angry since long until recently. I pass through it
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 21
Handling angry in the right manner is not easy.
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
23 Dec 21
@Sreekala I know but we all can try
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Dec 21
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@Babino (5759)
• Morocco
25 Dec 21
Anger is inevitable. But some things are worth getting angry for and some other things are not. I just avoid getting angry because of the same thing twice. Especially people.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Dec 21
Handling the same emotion is very important.
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@MarieCoyle (40229)
23 Dec 21
I grew up in a household that was often full of hate and anger. But, that didn't make me follow the example. I decided at a very young age to be different. And oh, yes I am. I know people say anger is a healthy emotion, and I know for many that is true. I do get mad once in awhile, but usually it's over someone doing something that hurt someone I love or care about. I can handle when it's dished out to me, but when it's someone else, I get upset. Usually I wait to react--so that I don't overreact and say something I might be sorry for, out of anger. Anger doesn't usually solve anything for me. I wish it did.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 21
I really appreciate your decision. Being surrounded with angry people, it is very difficult to keep your cool.
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