How do you decide if you should go on with the relationship?
By emjozar
@emjozar (73)
Philippines
December 29, 2021 7:11pm CST
I'm wondering how can you decide if you should go on with the 6 years+ relationship?
Sometimes you feel happy, sometimes you feel not. Sometimes you feel that love is there, but sometimes you don't think it's there. Sometimes you both fight a lot and it's kind of toxic but at the end of the day there is forgiveness.
It's really hard to let go of something that has been there for a long time.
But we have to know if it's worth it to push the relationship or not.
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3 responses
@luisadannointed (6306)
• Philippines
3 Jan 22
Love with commitment. I think we are all deceiving ourselves if we just go in a relationship if we felt happy... I think relationship is beyond happiness, it is a commitment to love that person forever even if you don't feel it anymore - love is not base on emotional, but it is a promise to keep that you will love the person no matter what. Commitment is to bring back the lost feelings... no need to bring back the love because it will always stays in the hearts of everyone who knows how to love.
Am I confusing? Be committed! And truly learn how to love yourself so you can give the same love to others...genuine, committed and will never leave... and the question about staying or not will never be in anyone's mind ever again.
@kaylachan (72082)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Dec 21
You have to ask yourself, if despite the toxic moments, do you truely still love the person enough to continue. Or, are the toxic moments outweighing everything else? Every relationship has it's ups, downs, and toxic moments. That's part of being human. There's never been a couple who hasn't fought, unless the relationship is new, but the question remains.... when do you realize it's worth continuing or not. Only you know the answer for that.
