Wy do so many women want money right from the beginning of a relationship?
By oscarbartoni
@oscarbartoni (2581)
United States
January 1, 2022 7:22pm CST
I have been looking for a soulmate for several years. When I meet someone online, a lot of the first things that they ask for is to send them money. These women (if they are even women) I have not even net in person. They are not even interested in getting to know me. Some even ask for my Social Security number or to send them photos of me driver's license, front and back or my VA card, same thing. I discard them very fast but why can't I fine someone that is interested in getting to know me and finding out if we are really compatible?
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11 responses
@Kouponkaren (5503)
• United States
2 Jan 22
Hm, maybe you are barking up the wrong tree, looking for someone online. I have found it's best to look for someone in person, someone who shares the same interests that you do. Have you tried that, or tried one of those lunch dating sites?
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@MarieCoyle (36709)
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3 Jan 22
I know there are a ton of scammers out there. Lunch sites sound like a good idea for anyone actually looking.
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@oscarbartoni (2581)
• United States
13 Jan 22
There are no places like that around here where I can find face to face get to know each other.
@kaylachan (68508)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jan 22
Because they aren't necessarily women. Most are men, looking to scam you out of your hard-earned money. It's a very popular, and common scam. If you're looking for romance online, do your research. Many of those free sites, are run by scammers looking to make a quick buck off some poor unsuspecting person.
Truth be told, your best bet is to try for an in-person relationship.
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@oscarbartoni (2581)
• United States
13 Jan 22
If only there were places like that around here, but there are not.
@oscarbartoni (2581)
• United States
13 Jan 22
I would love to meet women face to face but there are no places like that around here.
@Boyomma_14 (7)
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3 Jan 22
Possibly meeting women in the wrong places. Not all women are that way. Church, small get togethers, friends, etc are nice ways to meet women. When the right one comes along, you will know!
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@abhi_bangal (5330)
• Ahmednagar, India
16 Jun
It's quiet obvious that they are someone who probably want to loot you. I think that way because they aren't asking anything about you personally, your background, your family background or whatever. All they are interested in is just money. And I think you should be very careful about such people. You don't even know that they are males speaking like women. We have no idea sitting in one room and who's there on the other side.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
2 Jan 22
Maybe you looking on the wrong places. I get a lot of guys that typically talk to me and they always ask me if I’m a lonely house wife to which I tell them no. Then they offer to be my sugar daddy if only I send them money. To which I tell them no because nope not paying for anyone that I don’t have to.
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@Hildasalom (954)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Apr 22
You should not look for love through social media, you just have to meet someone in person that is when you can be sure that the person is right for you.
@MarieCoyle (36709)
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2 Jan 22
It works both ways. I am not wanting money from anyone, as money is not what makes us all happy. I've walked that path years ago with someone who thought it did. I have been contacted and asked for money by men who thought I had some, I guess. There are people who are not looking for money, but they don't have money to finance someone else, either. Some people would simply enjoy companionship and love.
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